OK SERIOUSLY!!!!! I NEED HELP...mariage, best friend?

Question

ok im 14 and my best friend is 14

and he declares he 'knows' wat love is. everyone doubts him and now hes going to get married to his girlfriend whos 15

hes going to propose to her and after he does hes going to wait tis they r 16 then marry..

i think this is so screwed up.. wat o i tell him because nothing i tell them changes their mind.

i just want my friend back, and i want to no wat to say

Answer 1

All you can do is continue to be a good friend to him. People only change their minds about things when they're ready. You don't have to agree with what he's doing. Just say, "Dude, I still think you're crazy. But you're my best friend and I'll be there for you, whatever you need."

Answer 2

yea... you ALL need some serious maturing to do.

you cant change their mind's why? because you are just and only a friend. sorry dude! and hey if they get married and it doesn't work out then you were right, they're immature, and lessons learned. oh and there's also something called divorce. so let them get married, have them face the actual real world and lets see where the relationship goes.. n e ways... just have fun and stop worrying about other peoples business... =D

Answer 3

even at 16 they need both of their parents to sign something agreeing to their marriage.  If they don't have their parents support they can't do it.  Give it time, he probably won't be with her by that point anyways.  There is a chance he may but it is not likely.

You've said your piece and told them what you think. I wouldn't say too much more if you want to keep his friendship.  If you push too much he may pull away from you and you may lose him as a friend. So decide whether it's worth it to lose him when he may not even listen to you in the end.  If this has already happened and you want him back maybe tell him "you know where I stand and what I think about this, but I will support you anyways because you are my best friend and I love you." and leave it at that.

Good luck hun! this is a hard situation to be in, especially at 14.

Answer 4

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im rly sry

but im 16 and my bf is 15 and we talk about marriage

we've been dating almost 9 months

and its rly took me away from my friends too

but if hes rly your friend you would support him that hes in love

he might be

you dont know

but be supportive

and if it doesnt work out for them

dont be like i told you so

be like im real sry man i knew you loved her

Answer 5

You won't change his mind. Chances are they won't even be together that long. See if you can let their parents deal with it, at least one of them should be a little miffed at this idea. They will need permission for it, I think all states require permission from the parents or from some official, and to get an expemption I really hope they would need a better reason than "We love each other".

If you think either one of them is in danger, inform a teacher you trust or a counselor at your school.