OK gentlemen, please answer my question?

Question

If you have a problem in your life, how do you solve it?

Do you like to be alone, or you talk about your problem to someone who you trust?

Answer 1

Same as above

Answer 2

If my problems can be solve by myself I just solve

them by my own. But when I do have problems that can

be solve quickly by a companion I quickly share my problem

to my BEST PAL or with my PARENTS and GOD!

Answer 3

First, you should know that as a man, I don't solved problems as women do in general.  It's a simple fact of human life and it's ok this way!  :)

At first, my reflex is to solved it by myself, keeping my emotions far away of the solution.  If I don't have the knowledge or experience, I try to learn it from diferents sources. That can be a book, Internet or another human.  The source does not matter.

But this method can be, sometimes, risky, as the movie "Risky business" ... but I like challenges too :)

Sometimes, you just have to face the problem, to dive in, not to avoid it.  

Take a deep breath  and GO!  You probably have the answer in your hearth.

Answer 4

With me, it depends on the problem.

Answer 5

Need more information. Some problems can be worked out on thier own, but for major problems, especially one that involves or can involve someone else, I like to discuss it. Weigh all the options.

Answer 6

It all depends on the kind of problem, but generally this is what I do:

When I first realise I have a problem, I like to spend time alone thinking it through first. I know this helps me to grow stronger every time.

If it is a problem I can solve on my own, I will, because that is how my upbringing conditioned me to function as a man.

If I find I can't solve it by myself, I will talk about it to a listening friend, because often just being able to vocalise it brings me the clarity I was seeking.

If I still haven't found a solution I am happy with, I will ask for advice from the person who is most appropriate according to the type of problem.

I have learnt the hard way to ask for assistance with my problems. It took me many years and many mistakes to understand that it wasn't a weakness in me or an inadequacy as a man to ask for help.

Now I realise that most people like to help others find solutions. That's probably one of the reasons for the success and popularity of this helpful site.

Answer 7

Whether I am alone or talk to someone I trust, when a decision is made to solve a problem, I am alone.  Talking to someone that I trust or don't even know for that matter, allows me to think through the problem.

Answer 8

I try to figure it out on my own and if I can't I will go to someone I trust for advice and guidance

Answer 9

Alone.

Answer 10

I'm 13, so heres what I do"

If it upsets me enough i will talk to my mother about it. (My mom and I think GREATLY alike) I will sit in bed and think about it some more. Depending on the importance of the situation, I may or may not approach it directly. (e.g. talking to the person I may be having an affair with)

Answer 11

I usually kick stuff around until I feel better.