OK.. i have a weird one for you? question that is?

Question

i have a daughter 21.. went to truck driving school..she had a bf she left at her home.. a trailer on her father land.. while she was at school she meet this other man.. who she like better.. so she got with him.. her father don't approve ..because he is black..any way her father evicted the other bf.. white..he did not like either.. she wants to bring new bf to land. he don't want her to.. i live in a 1 rm apt.. my youngest child sleep in living room.. for the next 2 weeks my bf old daughter will be here..sleeping with my youngest.. i just don't have the room..my ex called to ask if i would take my oldest 21 and her new bf..we already put off my bf daughter so my youngest could stay 2 more wks with a cousin going to the war..are we wrong for saying no..

Answer 1

I don't know I think it would be wierd to leave two teen girls with a guy that you hardly know. And the fact that you don't have the room is somehting that you can't really help. You wern't wrong for saying no

Answer 2

I don't think you're wrong for saying no.

If you don't have the room, you don't have the room.

Why can't your daughter and her boyfriend stay at her own trailer? I'm confused...

Answer 3

Y'know she doesn't HAVE to live with her boyfriend... it's not going to kill them to live apart until they can get their own place together.

Answer 4

if u don't want to

don't

trust your instincts

should u really be letting a 20-something year old guy be sleeping near 2 teenage girls ?

good luck 8)

Answer 5

Your daughter is old enough to deal with this on her own. Why cant she stay at her own place? If you dont have the room, you arent wrong for saying no. I wouldnt leave my teenage girls with a man I dont know.

Answer 6

no your not wrong for saying no-- You jsut don't have the room. And you don't know this man. He could be anyone and leaving him unsupervised with 2 young girls is NUTS!! stick to your guns girlie and just let your daughter know that you love her and would do anything for her but you cannot allow this.....

Answer 7

Your daughter is a big girl you don't have room so her and her man needs to stay some where esle. Your not wrong for saying no you just said you have know room she just has to understand

Answer 8

Don't let them stay because

1- you have no room

2 - you don't know the guy (we let someone stay with us and he stole us blind).

3 - I wouldn't trust my younger daughter around a stranger

4 - she has her own trailer.  (That's the bad thing about living off your parents - you have to follow their rules).

You can't be a doormat.  Don't feel guilty.