OKAY, I just lost my virginity..........and i think i might be pregnant?

Question

Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months. We're both 16 yrs. old and both virgins. We usually do sexual stuff (making out and 2nd base), BUT nothing near s*x.

Anyways, a few days ago (roughly 2-4 days ago) he accidentally stuck his thing (u kno) in my place, in other words, s*x. BUT he stuck it in and he didn't "sperm-inate". And he pulled it out and he stuck it in again a few minutes later after i told him not to and he didn't "sperm-inmate" that time either. And it was unprotected thw whole time.

And then the next day, when i woke up my lower tummy and my area kinda was tender and had little pains. And was the same for the next few days and i was tired and lazy alot too. And now today, when i woke up, i felt my hips looked a little bigger.

...............so is it just my brain, or am i pregnant or whats happening to me? Please don't insult me in anyway. Just help me please.

Answer 1

geeze... you would not find out now if you are pregnant. it takes more then a few days... if you miss your period then take a test. Start using protection and birth control if you are going to be having s*x. I was a mom at 16 and i can bet you do not want to be.

Answer 2

It's a lil too soon mama, and while it is possible, i doubt it. U will likely spread a lil when u become sexually active. As well as becoming sore. It's okay, i doubt ur pregnant, just be careful, cus trust me, at this age, u don't wanna be...

Answer 3

Maybe you should stop playing around till you are prepared for the consequences...whether or not he ejaculated in you or not...a p***s lets off some fluid that his called pre-ejaculate, that contains s***n that can get you pregnant.  You wouldn't be feeling the symptoms of being pregnant the day after, as the embryo hasn't even formed.  You will have to wait till your period is due to check for pergnancy...you are just feeling guilty about what you have done, adn the consequensces also...get yourself on the pill.

Answer 4

If you are feeling this way, you probably should not be having s*x.  

You are probably feeling this way because you aren't happy with what happend...  A lot of young people don;t wait long enough, or get themselves into something they can;t get out of.

You should have a talk with your boyfriend

Answer 5

First of all, if you did conceive a child while you were having s*x, it would take 6-10 days for that embryo to travel to your uterus and implant itself in the lining, and only AFTER it implanted would it start producing HCG (which is the hormone that causes pregnancy symptoms).  You cannot have pregnancy symptoms the day after conception.  

Second, if you are not mature enough to use the proper terms for your body parts and bodily functions, you are certainly not mature enough to be having s*x.  Don't do it again until you're ready for the possibility of pregnancy.

Answer 6

Relax.  The chances that you're pregnant are about a million to one.  There is sperm in pre-ejaculate (the clear stuff that comes out before the sperm), but not much.  You can still get pregnant without "sperm-ination," but it's rare.

You also can't tell that you're pregnant within 24 hours of having s*x.  It's much more likely that you were a little sore from losing your virginity.  The rest is probably just your mind playing tricks on you.  You shouldn't suspect pregnancy unless you miss your period.  Don't worry yourself over it until then.

Use a condom next time and spare yourself all this stress.

Answer 7

It is very unlikely you are pregnant but not impossible. You are still within the time span to take the morning after pill or have a coil inserted, but you must act fast. Phone NHS Direct , 0845 46 47, and ask for the nearest place to you giving out emergency contreception. You need to act quick on this, best be safe then sorry

Answer 8

your only way is to take the pregnancy test. if your not pregnant than don't have s*x until your maybe 21 because your way to young

Answer 9

Your tummy and "area" were tender cuz you just lost your virginity... and your hips dont get bigger over night pregnant or not, its all in your head

Answer 10

anytime you have unprotected s*x there always a chance for pregnancy.if you miss your next period then test.

Answer 11

Sperminate?????

It is possible, but not very likely that you are pregnant, based on what you actually did.  If you ARE pregnant, it is far too early to be having symptoms, so yes, it's just in your brain. (YOu are probably sore and tender because you just had s*x for the first time.  That can make you sore.)

And .. for future reference, s*x never happens 'accidently.'  If the two of you agree that you want to take your relationship further, get appropriate birth control (condoms, plus something for you if you want to be extra careful) and use it EVERY time.

Answer 12

Ejaculate.  The word you are looking for is ejaculate. And v****a.  Your "u kno" is a v****a.  And a p***s entering a v****a doesn't happen by accident.  Pre-ejaculate contains sperm,  but you really wouldn't realize it the next day.  Pregnancy symptoms don't appear just days after you've had s*x.  You are probably letting your mind get ahead of yourself, until you miss a period or in a few weeks take a test you won't know if you are pregnant or not.

If you don't understand how you can get pregnant, use the proper terms for things, or even understand how pregnancy works, you really aren't ready to be having any sort or sexual contact with someone.