OMG , Plz help me with this for gods sake ?? I am ruining myself?

Question

I am a college student , age :18 , male , & a g*y ; I have fell in crush with my professor ( He is around 26 ); But he is now moving to other state permanently & he may never meet us again ; I am trying to explain my heart that he was never meant for me , but alas , I am unable to satisfy its desires , My heart is till crying for the fact that he is moving , the condition is so worse that I try hover near his office everyday just to see him , I know all this is going to end in sufferings & I should quit it bcoz I AM RUINING MY CAREER , BUT alas my friends I am obsessed with it guys ; I have also observed that when He gives me a smile & talks to me , my day goes very well , I dont know whats happening , but I need to stop it coz its something not good , What should I do ??

Answer 1

I'm pretty sure that borders creppy obsession.

Answer 2

Oh I really want to help you but I don't think I can.

Have you told him about your feelings? If not, try to tell him.

Maybe his reaction will disappoint you, but...

Answer 3

Tell him? I dunno.  

Answer 4

Aww, well if he's moving, there's not a whole lot you can do, regardless if you confess your feelings or not..

As cliche as this sounds, the best thing you can do is wait till your next crush comes along.

But hey, if you guys have a good, friendly relationship, ask him if he'd like to keep in touch and see how he reacts :)

BEST OF LUCK TO YOU SWEETIE!

Answer 5

First, stop what you are doing and take a deep breath...relax...why are you in college? Hopefully for an education so you can have a career that will allow you to make a living. You are 18. You are an adult now, but you have a lot of living to do. Put it in your head now that college professors (whether male OR female) are not an option for you romantically. You can not only ruin your career, but theirs, and they have already had to go through a lot to get to where they are...It may seem fun or exciting to have this little drama about a guy thats leaving, but if you are honest and realistic, you know and have always known that nothing is ever going to happen between the two of you. If you were accepted into college, you are obviously intelligent and have something to offer the world. Don't sell yourself short and get caught up in silliness! College can be rewarding and a lot of fun; just balance your responsibilities with fun, and never let romance or friendships seriously affect or hinder how you manage your college life; personal issues may seem like a big deal now, but in the long run, it is your education that will influence what kind of life you will lead....I wish you all the best

Answer 6

what is he g*y too well g*y or not men arent meant to be together in a romantic relationship and you'd be stupid to ruin your career for someone that you have a crush on

Answer 7

Quit him cold turkey. Stop "hovering near his office", talking to him, and such. He's moving to another state, and as far as I can tell he doesn't even know you're obsessing over him. Once he moves away and you forget about him, i'm sure you'll find someone else to replace him.

Answer 8

hehehehe

Answer 9

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