OMG I'm actually scared of going to highschool. (LONG BUT PLAESE ANSWER) What on earth should I do?

Question

I'm so stressed. school starts on tuesday, and it'll be my first day of high school. I seriously don't want to go. And there is more to it than You would think.

First of all, this is pretty common, but the school grounds are huge, I KNOW for a fact I'm gonna get lost on the first day, that sucks Hardcore.

Next, theres the other fairly common fear, exams. I suck on tests, but get A's on projects and assingements. my brain freezes up and I can't remember anything, so I'm gonna be screwed like a light bulb.

And the last ones kinda unique. I was SEVERLY Bullied when i was younger, all the way from kindergarten to grade six, when it got so bad that i switched schools for grade 7 and 8. well now, I've got to go back and see all those people that had tortured me for all those years. And No, they havn't grown up in 2 years. I went to the high school with all the other grade 9's to get my time table, and when they saw me, they picked up where they left off. Fortunatly for me, i had my ex there and i was talking to him, and i was able to keep my cool, so it was ok then, but they were still at it. there is no way i can go to school if thats going to continue. I eventually couldn't handel it in elementery school and ened up knocking a few kids out for bullying me over the years. I was bullied physically and verbally. I was a fat little kid, so they branched off from that. It was horrible.

so now I have so face all that again. relive the past. I honestly feel like throwing a temper tamtrum. arms flailing and legs kicking and i feel like screaming, "I DON'T WANNA GO TO SCHOOL! YOU CAN'T MAKE ME!" It ruined my life once and i don't want it to happen again. I can't face these people again.

All this stuff about high school, I don't feel like going. If i could stay in elementry school, I would. then nothing wouldn't have to change, and then i could stay in a place where no one even considered for a second making fun of me and calling me fat, or worse nicknames that I don't wish to disclose to strangers. (Sorry) If I could stay in middleschool, everything would be fine. I don't know what I'm gonna do.

Any advice on anything that I'm worried about would be extreamly helpful. thanks.

Answer 1

ignore them. or if its really bad then tell someone. hunn u cant go on living ur life like that. u have to stand up (not by punching them). ppl can get expelled for that kind of behaviour..so threaten them with that.

why are you going to that highschool if u know its where all the as*holes are gonna go? go to another one.

it can be really tough to deal with stuff like this but if u dont do something now then ur gonna be weak for the rest of your life. F*CK THEM ALL YOUR YOU AND IF THEY DONT LIKE THAT THEY CAN GO DIE.

for the tests thing. study extra hard. and get help from teachers. tell them ur issue and how u freeze up. they'll help u get through that.

find some other friends that dont know u from before.

good luck xoxo

Answer 2

Alrighty well first off, let me honestly tell you that when I was going to high school, I thought of a million things I'd rather do. I had major melt downs, I couldn't see it. I couldn't see myself in high school, in portables going to different classes throughout the day, going to my locker... I couldn't do it even though I had to.

And I am honestly saying that it isn't that bad. If its anxiety about classes and teachers and c**p, ignore it. The school seems big NOW, I understand that, but don't worry once you get used to it, everything will get smaller. Bring your schedule, and you'll do fine. Concentrate on where your going walk fast and you'll do fine. Schools I'm sure will have an order of room numbers so follow whether they are going up or down and try to make mental notes about which ends are higher and lower if your worried about getting lost.

As for those idiots from your old school. you said it yourself, they haven't grown up. Trust me you wont look like the idiot. They will. If the school is big, there will be lots of people, and three older grades, watching their idiocy. at my school we have people like that, who act so incredibly immature, and I'm not the only one who sees the attention they're seeking by it.

My advice is to ignore them. I know I know, "it doesn't work like that. It's not that easy" but I do it, and you seem to be a strong person, and I trust that you can stick up for yourself. If they tease you don't respond, I know it sounds hard, but it isn't.  Think about it, I mean they sound pretty immature, you should be proud of the fact that you aren't like them.  And if they're that rude, who cares about them and what they think, right? I wouldn't want to be friend with them!!

I know how taunting high school seems, but you can do it, everyone can, and your not the only one who's nervous. It's hard to accept that, but try to have an open mind, and rather than thinking of this year as a continuation of your old school, think of it as a brand new start, and forget those losers who enjoy ruining people's lives, because they don't make it into this chapter of your life.

As for exams, I'm not sure how intense your school is but at mine, exams are a joke. Not that they aren't a challenge, but when they come, you will be relieved. Usually you get the week off, to study. I highly recommend study notes. I type them because my handwriting pretty much sucks. Hah!  So be organized during the year. It's really important. I recommend a binder per subject.  Keep your binders neat and organized with tabs separating units.  That will make it easier to go through and summarize notes when exam time comes.  

When actually studying read out loud, and after you read about something try explaining it again to yourself, to be sure you understand it. You might sound weird, and you'll feel totally wacky! But it helps me understand. Also take breaks when you study and study similar subjects separately. Study in a comfortable place, but sometimes a bed isn't the best idea because it can make you too comfortable and you'll end up falling asleep!!

Try a desk, or the kitchen tables, with a cup of tea or hot chocolate! :)

As for dfdr, I'm afraid that's the only thing I can't help you with, I've never heard of it before.

So looks like my answer was longer than your question but I really hope that seriously helped!! :)

good luck, and ENJOY high school! You really will miss it when your four years are gone, trust me they go by fast!

Answer 3

Try it out the first couple of weeks. If it is torture tell your parents and ask to leave the school.

Answer 4

Well, I used to get picked on too, but it's not a big deal for me.

My words are like knives in a tomato.  That's my defense. I'm blunt and really don't give a flip of what people think about me as long as I'm happy with myself. Took me a while to get that, but I had to get it quick!

In high school I never had much of teases. Just a few but that got resolved quickly.  I ignored it and told them what was on my mind, showed no fear, and also showed I didn't care either :P

People who tease others are often conceited. They think they're better and are SO NOT in more ways than four.  Look, don't attack them. Just tell them the truth about themselves. If what they say is true about you don't be afraid to admit it! Heck, I don't! People say I have problems and my response is "YEA I KNOW I DO ! You have NO Idea. Shall I begin to count?" after that it's usually the idea they get of some sort and just..walk off. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. But I retaliate easily and fluently.

If they say truths about you, then you tell them truths about themselves.  Don't compare them to anything else. If they have a nasty attitude, act like an idiot or whatever, tell it flat out. If they compare you to something, that only says they don't have enough sense of the English language (or whatever language it is you use to converse in) to make a statement that makes sense without the use of metaphors because they themselves don't even know what they mean.  

Hon, listening to them only wastes your time. Tell em you have better things to do than to listen to idiots in costumes.  

They poke you, you poke em right back!

People like that really p**s me off..Sorry for the long message though!!

Hope this helped some! =D Hope high school works out for ya, Hon.

If it didn't help sorry for wasting your reading time!

Answer 5

This sorta happened to me too. My "friend" from elementary school went to different Middle school than i did. We were "friends" but secretly hated eachother. Last year I had to go to highschool, and found out she was going to the same one as me. We never talked at all. She got into the outskirts of the popular crowd and I am a nerd. Just don't talk to them. It is highschool. Chances are is they will see all the other seniors and juniors and grow up a little. Also so you don't get lost, visit the school before it starts and walk through your schedule. It really helps. Also try not to blank out before tests. Study really hard so you don't get as nervous and remember just as much as you can. Just prove yourself as a smart, nice, and tolerable person. Just try your best and any teacher will be happy to help you out I bet.

Answer 6

Well I never let anybody bullied me my whole life and trust me i had bullies from left to right. I was kind chubby and short but i was a really tough not physically but mentally. Bullies tend to pick on you just to see u how u react but if u dont give them a reaction at all they tend to get bored. so i went with that technique my whole life but then i hit puberty and grew mucles lol so yeah i keep your head high and finish high school so u can rub it in their faces cause i doubted those bullies will graduate!!

Answer 7

bullys suck- ingnorment works

Answer 8

ok first, you say you were talking to your ex when they were saying that stuff so u kept your cool.

You have an ex.

that should boost your confidence to know that there are people who do think you are attractive! keep that thought in mind for confidence.

second; i am a sophmore, my school is small and has 70 kids, and I got lost there on my first day, so i can garuntee you, at your school it wont only be your getting lost and people wont remember that forever, so deal with it.

3rd; think of how your appearance has changed since you were a 'fat little kid' do you have curves girls would die for? did you lose weight? did your face get more textured and defined? cheekbones? how are your teeth? three faces you want most in high school,

1st a nice welcoming face, simple smile.

2nd. a good sarcastic or mean looking face or smile

3rd a flirty face

hope those answers helped!