OMG I AM SOOO MAD HELP!!?

Question

ok so yesterday me and my sister went over to my friends house and we wanted to sleep over because it was the first night they slept in it. so any ways... my mom said for us to come home at 600 but her boyfriend said we could sleep over as long as we got home early for church. so we sleep over and we sleep in PAST church starting time which is 730. and when we went home at 9:00 but no one was home so they said for us to just go back with them, so we did. we went back home at 1000 AND STILL NO ONE WAS HOME!! so then we go back and swim and stuff and went back home at 630 because they kept getting side tracked!! so when i got home finally, my mom says your grounded for 2 weeks, no cell phone, un hook your tvs, give me all your new clothes, no computer,(im sneaky lol) gimme your MAKEUP! and I'm like HE SAID WE COULD STAY THE NIGHT AND WHEN I CAME HOME NO ONE WAS HERE! so she said SHUT UP! and i said this is not fair! he said we could go! how the heck are we supposed to get to church when NO ONES HOME?!?!?!?!? so she tells me to get out! so i got out and my mom goes into my little sisters rooms and tells them that if i have any electronics on or anything to tell her! SHE TOLD ME SHE DOESN'T TRUST ME BECAUSE MY LITTLE SISTER THAT WENT TO THE FRIENDS WITH ME SAID I TOLD HER SHE COULDN'T GO HOME!! DIRTY LIE!!! when my moms boyfriend called me he asked if he could come get us i said yes but my sister said NO!! she is just getting me into trouble!! GAWD!! this is reeeeaaalllyyy making me very angry, and NO MAKEUP!! I LOOK HIDEOUS WITHOUT!! This is soooo uncool and i want to move with my dad but my mom wont let me so imma runaway!! im pretty sure i can take care of myself! HELP!!

Answer 1

write your mum a letter, and explain it to her in that, ... she will have to read it and won't be able to but in!!

if she still isn't reasonable then tell your dad and tell him you want to move in with him.. he will get a say as he can go to court for a custody battle

Answer 2

Let's consider:

This was posted using a computer, does your mom really have any reason to trust you?

Life isn't fair, this is a great opportunity to get used to that concept.

You were wrong, she may well be overreacting, but she's the adult, YOU are the child!

It might  be totally different if you were on time for Church, (maybe the punishment would be just as bad, you still disobeyed your mom), but you screwed up, and you will pay the full consequences.

Obviously, you need to learn some respect and obedience, as you've already defied her punishment.

Sorry this happened, learn from your mistakes.

Anyone rational human being reading your post would seriously doubt you can take care of yourself.

Luck

Answer 3

i didnt know this would be so long, but please read it:

first of all, please don't run away becuase i dont know how old you are but chances are you are under 18 and it's not legal to run away. and unless you are over 16, nobody can hire you either. BUT maybe you could take care of yourself, i dont know. but i am only 12. and i am just kind of that riddiculously sensible person, so even though i wanted to run away so bad i could have lost my mind i didnt, becuase logically i couldn't take care of myself and i knew that. so, i went for the second best thing. food, clothes, shelter, bath, but as far away from my parents as possible. for me--- I camped out in the garage for a while. well, i wouldnt suggest this. there were this d**n awful mice. they would run around all the time. and our garage kind of has two "floors" like half of the garage has like this seperation thing so that was my bed. I took all my things with me and i swear that garage was like so comfy! i had my clothes, it had electricity, even an old refrigerator! and of course my mom begged me to come back in. but i didnt for a while. but the reason i wouldnt suggest THIS particular thing is because like i said--- d**n awful mice. it was sweltering durring the summer, freezing in the winter ( i didnt stay THAT long, but i knew it was extreme weather conditions.) and there was this horrible leak. not to mention just the fact of who wants to live in a friggin garage?!?! sorry bad memories, the point is, maybe you could find some place like that to stay. (NOT the garage!!!) i mean the guest bedroom if you have one, we have too big a house for us so our basement, (which was meant to be a whole other house) is empty. and maybe it will blow over. and as for the makeup, borrow some from a friend and put it on in the school bathroom then wash it off before you go home. that way, you dont get in trouble and you look ok for school! good luck to you those crappy situations happen to me all the time!!!

Answer 4

wow thats alot of drama...u shoulda made sure it was ok wit ur mom that u stayed the nite...

just live up to ur punishment...

its the best thing to do...i promise

Answer 5

Your mom told you to be home by the time Church starts. You weren't. End of story.

You said: my mom said for us to come home at 600 but her boyfriend said we could sleep over as long as we got home early for church. so we sleep over and we sleep in PAST church starting time which is 730. and when we went home at 9:00

So I'm going to assume that church started at 730 but you didn't get home until 900. Why would anyone be home? Wouldn't they be at church? Where you were supposed to be? Yes it's unfair that your little sister didn't get in as much trouble as you but you /were/ responsible for her. Yes the punishment your mother gave you was harsh but she's just trying to teach you a lesson. You could have called her yes? You could have left a note at your house for when they got home. You were very irresponsible and for that your mother decided to punish you. Running away is a HUGE overreaction. Just learn to deal with the punishment and learn from your mistakes.

Answer 6

Ow... My eyes

You should try cleaning up your writing first. Start with losing "I'm like" and "So she said". Paragraphs and Capitals at the starting of sentences.

After you clean up your english, I'd say you're safe to runaway.  

Answer 7

I agree, give into the punishment and next time don't ask the boyfriend, make sure you ask your Mom. And if you are old enough you could go live with your dad and your Mom can not stop you.

Answer 8

You should have done what your mom said, her bf is not your parent.

Answer 9

Deal with it as best as you can... take your lumps and learn the lesson.

This will all blow over soon enough.

You don't listen to her BF... he is not your parent and has no idea of how things work. You listen to your mom and pay attention to her rules or you will pay the price.

You also don't allow your sister to insert herself into your affairs... she is a liar. If you have any questions, you call your mom directly... don't ever accept what your sister says because she has and will set you up just for the fun of it. See if you can put that shoe on the other foot to teach her a lesson.

Learn to at least keep some back-up makeup stowed in an old purse in the back of your closet. Like save the last 1/5 of it for reserve and go get more for your main supply.

With your sister working against you like that, you should consider getting a replacement doorknob with a keyed lock on your closet door... and wear that key on your neck. Learn to stow your things away.

Answer 10

Talk to your mom when shes not really mad. If you want to go live with your dad and your old enough to make that choice, based on what the court says is old enough, there is no reason you can't. I would get her permission next time you do anything. her boyfriend doesn't really have the authority to do very much because he isn't your legal guardian.