OMG. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO HELP ME!!!!!!!!?

Question

I really need some help. Ok, like everyone knows what a hand job is, and a foot job right Ok. Well, I might be going over my bf's to his house soon and he kinda said if I wanted to i could do those to him. I have thought about it before, but I have never done anything like that to anyone. I have never done something bad, and I am just afraid that people and myself will think I am bad. Is it wrong to do that? Is it s*x? I am so confused.

Answer 1

.,hmm.. just ask him so you will know what's the answer to your question..

Answer 2

its not "s*x" but its still a sexual act. i think if your doubting doing it maybe your not ready and you should wait. but its not bad, its natural and human, its only you who can judge yourself on what you do to your boyfriend. I think  you should be okay with it yourself before you do it and your boyfriend should respect what you are deciding to do

Answer 3

Yes it is s*x. It is bad. First how old are you? If you are under 18 you need to talk to your parents. Please don't let people talk you into things that you are not ready for. You have a voice and a right to say NO.

Answer 4

If this is stressing you so much then I don't think your ready to do this stuff. Just stick to the kissing for now! But if you did do it it certainly wouldn't make you "bad".... these things are natural things us humans were put on the earth to do!