OMG.... I really need some help, please?????

Question

I really need some help

ok well i was going out with this guy, and it was kinda a long distance relationship, i really love this guy and anyways, i dont know what happened but... i cheated on him, with my ex (i spose i better tell you the full story)....

its not like i did it on purpose but it just happened

one moment i was happily swimming in my pool

and next thing i know...my ex is jumping the fence, stripping off and joining me

he was all over me at first... but i freaked out and screamed at him that i have a bf...i punched him in the face and went inside

he went home

20mins later he is at my door apologising.... i dont know what happened but i just thort he looked soo hot when he is guilty...anyways we started pashing, but i stopped him saying once again that i have a boyfriend, he sed that he would respect that...and he left

I told my bf what happened and to tell you the truth i really had no idea how he felt about it coz he kept sayin thing like "you should go *** him" or something like that (i kinda got the feeling he was joking coz i am still a virgin and he knows that....but i was still a bit unsure).....

anyways

30mins later i invited my ex back ova, we stripped down once agen and went for a swim.... this time i was more relaxed and felt as if nothing were going to happen... and i had NO IDEA what was going to happen untill it did.. i thort that we would pash AT MOST, i didnt plan on giving him head but it kinda just happened

well, i had to be honest, so i told my bf, he was really angry (obviously), and i felt soooo bad coz he sed he doesnt want to be with me anymore (i can understand that... i wouldnt want to be with a cheater either)

ive NEVER cheated before and i can honestly swear on my life that it will never happen again... he doesnt believe me tho (he also doesnt believe that i didnt plan to give my ex head)

i need some help... is there any way that i can win him back... coz im clueless

any ideas??

Answer 1

I'm sorry - this is way too long and confusing to read.

Answer 2

awwww poor darling

send him roses or something

or an "i love you" card

if he truly does love you then he'll take you back

but this s kinda karma for you being a s**t (if i must be rash)

AH BEST IDEA

when it's raining, go to your boyfriends house, dripping wet and crying and he'll get all worried and you'll say you love him so much and you walked all the way to his house in the rain just to tell him that

Answer 3

get bak wid ur ex, u aint gono see ur bf everyday, ur ex is gono be wid u !

Answer 4

appologize to your boyfriend and get back with your ex or be single because you obviously can't be trusted lol no offense but just because you say that's never going to happen again doesn't mean you won't do it since you already cheated once and didn't think it would happen lol  If my gf cheated on me i would dump her and i've been with her for 4 years.  

There are no second chances when it comes to that stuff.  Once you cheat on someone, it's over.  If they still want to be with you, they are either desperate or have no balls.  You are probably a nice girl but maybe you just need to lose your virginity and go be single for a while so you can get it all out of your system.  Once you do that, you'll be ready for something serious.  right now.. you're not  

Answer 5

okay? first question: why? second: how old are you? and last what were you thinking obviously if he kept coming to you house then he probably wanted something from you. you should of had the right mind to tell him to shove off next time use your head!

Answer 6

Its no good telling us all that.  Its up 2 u 2 make it up, if i was him i wouldent even spaek to u again.

Answer 7

sorry but i have no sympathy with you... you still could've said no but you still went ahead... it's not like he put a gun to your head.. it takes two to tango... and just the fact that you let him go ahead means you still have some feeling for him.... you don't deserve the other guy.. you and your ex deserve each other...

oh yah and have you ever heard about the saying:

"ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER"

Answer 8

WHAT THE FU*K U DONT LOVE YOUR BF YOU s**t

IF U DID THEN U WOURENT OF CHEATED ON HIM YOU DO KNOW THAT YOUR EX WAS PLAING YOU AND KNEW WHAT WOULD HAPPEN TRUST ME IVE DONE THAT **** TO GOD YOU s****s ARE EZ AND STUPID COME ON IF U DIRENT SEE THAT COMING YOUR THAT MOST STUPID SKANKYES SLUTYEST BIT*H EVER I CANT BELIVE YOU FELL FOR THAT YOUR SO STUPID