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OMG PLEASE HELP BF TROUBLE?

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me and my boyfriend just broke up because he was being over possessive or however you would say it I'm kinda young but I think was In love with him now I feel stupid because I am the one who wanted to end it so bad now I find myself missing him and thinking about him alot lately. everytime I see him I feel like we are still together and I want to be all clingy and hold him and stuff but that would not be right. I need help because I am seriously sad about this

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  1. I think leaving him was the right thing to do. Men that are possessive have a tendency to become abusive emotionally and physically for that matter. If he was overly jealous it's not a good thing. Take it from an adult with experience in this area. :)


  2. you really helped me on my last qestion so imgoing to help you when you need it the most.Well dont just give up get back up and go ask him if it would be ok if you guys could still be friends i mean theres nothing wrong with that and you know if he  upset with you either wait til he settles down or you can ask him to be friends now and if hes upset thats his problem he can handle it tell him to sto acting like a 2 year get off his butt and be a man

  3. Welcome to the first of many! Especially if your young. Don't worry about it. You don't need someone who is over possessive trust me. You need to be able to live your life and grow together, not be smothered by some jealous guy who just wants to control you. Give it time, it will get better.  

  4. If you feel this way, you should talk to him about being possessive, and if you still feel like you want him then ask him to give you a second chance.  If you're meant to be together, it'll work out.  Sometimes you don't know what you have till it's gone, and then hopefully it's not too late.  In your case I'm sure it's not.  Just talk to him about what your feeling.

  5. If you still feel all these feelings about him. Try to take steps  to getting back with him. Just solve all your issues first and then move forward. I wish you luck.

  6. he might bsayin the same thing

  7. well, everyone makes mistakes and not everyone trys to fix them....try to fix it...ask him backout and say ur sorry and stuff

  8. just talk to him about it  let him know you love that he cares for you and is so protective and you miss the way he held you. if you're meant to be together it will happen! good luck =]

  9. tell him u're sorry and u'd do anything for him. Even it mean sacrificing ur juice.

  10. your boyfriend is a bum.

    and so are you.

    good bye

  11. WTF. so thats wut u call love. Thats normal cuz ur not used to him not being "with" u. suck it up and go find someone else.  

  12. of course you're feeling sad now... people aren't comfortable with change... but trust me when I say, after time, it'll all get clear why you left and you'll see clearly if what you did was wrong.... sounds to me like it was a good idea but then again he might have thought he loved you too.... just REALLY REALLY think about it.... the answer will just pop up...

    -with luck

         Cora

  13. Get back together with him thats reasonable and if ur clingy to and hes possesive kinda works out ya know

  14. try saying sorry to him im sure he will understand

  15. you will always feel that way when you break up. If you feel you broke up for a good reason, then you need to try and get over him. healing and dealing with a breakup usually takes a lot of time. try to stay busy so your not just thinking about how upset you are all the time, cry when you need to because that really helps, exercise it out- a good run will deal with some of your emotions, and dont watch or listen to any sad movies or love songs. bring happiness into your life. the missing him part will be there for a while, but dont worry it will go away if you are willing to wait.

  16. Make a list of pros and cons, and if you want him back, go for it.

  17. No..it was just lust. Time heals all wounds. If he was over possessive, you dind't need that and it would have just been harder to deal with in the future and if you didn't end it, you would have been worse off later and in the future would have been more sad. You shouldn't feel stupid for missing him I know exactly how you feel. Its just that you don't have what you once had anymore, or you never know what you had until its gone. Of course, that's only true for good situations :) the situation you were in was not okay. Over possessiveness can lead to verbal or physical violence eventually.

    Don't worry The longer you would have stuck with him, the harder it would have been. you deserve better.

    Good luck.

  18. Over possessiveness is usually a sign of trouble. I felt the same way with my GF, but it takes time to get over him. I though i was in love too but i found someone sooooo much better. Try not seeing him for a awhile.

  19. get a hobby. please my friends go through this everyday its not healthy

  20. You are just feeling insecure.  Don't second guess yourself, just trust your instincts!  Time heals all wounds.  Don't keep picking at the scab because it makes the healing process take longer...ya know what I mean?

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