OMG! my niece. i'm going to kill her......?

Question

ok. so my niece just came to me like a week ago and told me that she is prego. She's 12 and shes had her period simce 10. I'm the first person who she told. But she doesn't know what to do. Can you help us out a bit? How is she going to deal with this?

Answer 1

Whoop her @ss for being such a sl*t, then tell the parents and let them take it from there. I reccommend putting it up for adoption, that way some couple who wants it can have it.

Answer 2

Straight to the doctor's office for a determination of age (of the fetus ) and book her in for an abortion.

THEN she needs proper guidance, proper parenting and proper education about s*x.

Answer 3

You need to have her tell her mother. She is very young to be in this situation. her parents have the right to know. i think you will be overstepping your boundaries if you get involve. Legally her mother has the right to know

Answer 4

SHE'S 12?!!?!?

that's terrible.

abortion.

i'm against abortion, but honestly.. at 12 years old you can't raise a kid!!!!!

and i got pregnant when i was 14, and i paniced my face off.. i'm glad i didnt keep it,

Answer 5

omg!!! well you need to tell her mom and they need to decide what ses going to do she cant even get a job how is she going to support the baby

Answer 6

Yes, i would be pretty angry with her also, however what's done is done and now she is going to have to make some serious decisions. Starting by telling her parents because she is so young, she will certainly need to see a doctor right away. You have a very tough position of knowing a secret that you will not be able to keep to yourself for long. Talk with her and let her know you love her, will be there for her and maybe even offer to be with her when she breaks the news to mom and dad. Good Luck

Answer 7

her body is to small to handle a baby. how many weeks is she. you need to tell her parents and you should have a family meeting about what you are going to do like etheir give the baby up for adoption or abortion  or to keep the baby. if that was my daugher i would kick her ***  and then the boy's *** but right now she needs our surport about becoming a parent so young.

Answer 8

I wouldn't recommend abortion. First that is a traumatic event and it could emotionally scar someone that young. It is something she would carry with her for life. Also, she shouldn't shirk the duty she has to this life she created - s*x begets babies (duh) and maybe 9 mos of caring for another life would teach her some responsibility. However, I don't know the FIRST 12 year old who could handle raising a child. If her parents don't want to raise it for her (and they couldn't really be blamed if they didn't) she should see a church about finding a placement for the baby once it is born. Most any church should be able to provide her with a list of agencies that pair babies with people who want to adopt. A Catholic church might have the best resources as they are very pro-life. The first step though is to inform her parents and get her to a Dr for an exam to make sure she is healthy. The next step is plan for AFTER the pregnancy to put her on some reliable birth control (optimally she would have learned her lesson and stop having s*x until she's old enough to handle the repercussions but that may not be realistic.)

Answer 9

Take her to get an abortion

Answer 10

wow my daughter is 12 and I don't know what I would do.  There body can't go throught this at such a young age, but an abortion could be worse,  god bless you and take her staight home to her mom and dad t get some help!

Answer 11

Don't feel alone my cousin got pregnant at 12 to.

Don't know what's going on now a days.

You need to explain to her what like will be like

both ways and let her decide.

There are videos and books don't push

INFORM.

Answer 12

Its not safe for her to have this baby. It can seriously damage her body if she has this baby. She needs to see a clinic and have it taken care of. This is not an insensitive reaction, but more a reasonable one. She is risking her life here, in more ways than one. Her body isnt even finished developing.

Explain to her that this is what she needs to do so she doesnt die and you need to personally help her.

Answer 13

Tell her parents and don't get invovled anymore from there.

Answer 14

OMG! if she's a light girl, she might not be able to handle the weight when the baby grows  larger.OMG! wow! you and her parents REALLY need to inform her on this kind of stuff.If she gets prego at 12,imagine what she could be doing by the age of 15!? i suggest that you should definiteley get an abortion. -best of luck!

Answer 15

Tell her mum and dad. Otherwise they are going to get really annoyed with you!!

Then get her into see a doctor.

Answer 16

stay calm firstly.

I would recommened an abortion obviously at that tender age, however the parents must be informed. Inform her of the risks of s*x and STI's. And how it is better to have safe s*x, especially at such a young age.

remember kids, dont be silly, wrap your willy

Answer 17

Just try to calm down and think how to help her, first take her to the Dr and have her tested and if + ask the Dr for the pros and cons of her getting an abortion or going thru labor at that age than tell her mom, if you don't want to tell her mom yet than you might want to talk to a counselor but remember the longer you take the shorter the time if she was to get an abortion. Good luck and I really hope that everything turns out for the best and she learns a good lesson from this and closes her legs in the near future.

Answer 18

Just be there for her and try to help her make decisions.  She needs love and support more now than ever.