OMGG.. please help me, i cant stand my parents!!?

Question

okay well ma name is kayla and im 14 years old. i live with both my parents but my dad took off his wedding band idk why but he did, ever since my 17 year old sister got pregnant. so my parents are soo mean to me... they wont let me do anything ! ! i went to church tonight just like they wanted me to and i kind of had fun. my dad thinks i hate it but i like going the people there are very nice to me. noww my mom she knows that im not a virgin and that i have a boyfriend and she keeps that from my father becuz im not suppost to date until im 16. okk wel tonight i got home and its 9:00pm here right now and i asked if i can go out and hang out with my friends and they wont let me.. like i just want to go to my boyfriends house i havnt seen him in a couple days and he wants to have s*x with me and my parents are being rediculous. ahh what can i do to get my parents to let me go out!!! ??

Answer 1

ask them y they wont let u go out (im sure that there is a rwason behind it)

clean up around the house a little and they may be a bit more willin to let u go

just go up and be like can i go to my friends house for a couple hours and ill be back around when ever

and if they still wont let u go then dont dis obay them and sneek out or throw a tantrum cause if u do that then they will think that ur not mature enough to let u go out and wont let u out any other times

they arent doin these things because they r mean their just doin this to protect u cause they love u and dont want anything bad to happen

good luck :) hav fun and BE CARFULL (im not gonna get into the whole havin s*x thing cause that none of my buisness to tell u wat to do bout it) <33

Answer 2

They are very protective of you and probably under a lot of stress.  don't end up like your sister.

Answer 3

what is wrong with you?? dont u see how many teens are becoming pregnat. do u SERIOUSLY want to make it even HARDER on your parents. the reason that they are keeping u away is because they think youre going to go off and have s*x with someone and turn into ur sister. u should know better and u are wayy to young to even be wanting s*x. talk to your parents about the way that you feel with the situation so u can hang out with ur friends, and ur boyfriend NOTHING that goes to s*x okay?u cant just go off and do that. guys WOULD and WILL do anything to get in ur pants and he's going to end up dumping u. sorry thats the truth. very big shame.

Answer 4

They're just worried because your sister got pregnant at an early age and they don't want you to end up like that.

Answer 5

I am going to answer this straight up. Your going to be a w***e.

Answer 6

You mom is not doing you any favors, sweetie.  Around here, it's a school night, so at 9:00, your butt should be parked at home.  If you're still on break where you are, it's still getting a little late for someone your age to be wandering around.

Your boyfriend might want s*x -- SO WHAT?  Have you so little self-respect that you just drop everything, disobey your parents, etc, just to run over to his house so he can get himself some lovin'?  

If I were your mom, you'd be locked in your bedroom with a guard at the window!

Answer 7

Don't say you can't stand your parents, that's ridiculous. Your too young for s*x. Go sulk or something, deal with it.

Answer 8

U do no ur too young for s*x, just chill and do some other activities like watchin a movie, playin some games, just chillaxin-real word, point be they dont want u to get preagnant as well, there acting like mature parents , maybe u should build a stronger trust wit them!!

Answer 9

well first of friggin all, you're too young to be having s*x, im fourteen myself. dating is fine and having a boyfriend, but when you're under eighteen you have to have your limits, or your gonna be all screwed up when your older(no offense) i have friends that have gotten pregnant and stuff at even like friggin 13, and thats horrible, you could be like that even if you have safe s*x, the condom can always break and all that good stuff. not really, but yeah. you should maybe listen to your parents and you wont be screwed up in the future.

anybody that sees this message, email me if you have problems.

i might be able to cheer you up, give you some advice, all that good stuff. [e-mail]

Answer 10

You live under their house, so you should follow their rules. They just don't want you to get pregnant like your sister, and you should understand that. They only want what's best for you. You're 14, you shouldn't have physical contact with your boyfriend anyways.

Answer 11

you got a messed up family, your gonna be a pregnant teen just like your sister

Answer 12

why are you having s*x? Your going to end up like your sister. I'm sure your dad knows your not a virgin and thats why he took of his wedding ring.  He doesnt want you to end up like Juno.  You'll have plenty of time to have s*x when your older. In fact your sick for talking about how much you like church but want to go have s*x with your boyfriend.  

Answer 13

They are just scared. They don't want you to end up like your sister. They want to protect you. They will get over it in a while. You will have to live with them for now. Just know that they love you.

Answer 14

So, let's recap. You went to CHURCH last night with your parents, and felt you should be rewarded for going to church by being allowed to leave the house alone at 9:00 p.m. to do whatever you wanted. At age 14.

Well, if you had crappy irresponsible parents, you might have gotten your way. Too bad for you that you don't have crappy irresponsible parents.

Your mother may have reconciled herself to the fact that you are no more a virgin than your 17-year-old sister, but that doesn't mean she's willing to serve you up on a silver platter to some worthless boy, whenever that boy wants s*x. You don't even see how wrong this is, and that's your entire problem.

At age 14, here's no way you can convince them to let you come and go as you please, and there's no way to get them to accommodate your plans for s*x with your boyfriend. In fact, now that your mother knows, you can probably expect to have much less time with your boyfriend, and no privacy whatsoever with him.

Don't bet on your father not knowing either. Ring or no ring, husbands and wives tend to confide in each other when important matters arise. You following in your big sister's footsteps would qualify.

Answer 15

Ok, im 14 so litsen up. I'm not going to be like the other people who answered ur question saying "Don't have s*x" If you want to have s*x, than go ahead (hopefully ur on birth control or ur bf is wearing a condom) but, anyways Just try to convince ur parents that you are old enough and mature enough too go out and do what you want  ! Go, and then go out and enjoy s*x, i wish i had a gf, who waz like u and wanted to have s*x.

Hope i Helped

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Answer 16

same problem

Answer 17

First of all, you are not a beck and call girl, so tell your bf to take care of his own problem.  He is treating you badly and you are not even aware of it.  No wonder your parents don't want you dating.

Second, it's 9:00 on a week day.  That is late enough for you to stay home - period.  

Your parents are stupid.  They know that something is up and you just think you are fooling them.  

Answer 18

Just get preggers.  It will make them less stressed because they won't worry about you getting preggers.

Answer 19

they're probably really stressed out right now. it's not all about you! save them the trouble and sneak out later

Answer 20

I have parental troubles also but in your situation, they're not the ones being ridiculous. You're 14 and you want to go have s*x with your boyfriend and you think your parents will willingly let you go even when your 17 year old sister is pregnant?

First of all, the fact that you're having that much physical contact with your boyfriend is unbelievable, you're growing up too fast. And second, it's ridiculous that you think they'll let you go out to have s*x when they have pregnant teenage daughter already.

Answer 21

if you're 14 and it's 9 p.m. i don't blame them. you're too young to have a boyfriend and you're having s*x already. you're crazy.

you're going to be pregnant before you're 16 then there'll be more strain on your parents' marriage.

Answer 22

i think your problem is your boyfriend wanting to see you to have s*x he should want to see you because he misses you and he should just want to hang out and watch a movie or something s*x SHOULD NOT BE THE REASON FOR HANGING OUT. think about that for a while.  

Answer 23

whoooa chill there youre only 14 you are NOT ready for s*x if that is your way of retaliating against your family or if its a cry for attention stop because the consequencis could be life altering and you dont want to have a child at age 14  

Answer 24

Why should they? You have been disobeying them! Why should you have any priveleges? Why are you even allowed on the computer? Not only do you have a boyfriend, you've been out having s*x! And even worse, you want to go out and do it again and when they won't let you, you freak out saying they are being ridiculous!

There isn't any reason you need to go out and disobey them again tonight!!!