ONLY mature adults answer. I'm having an affair with a married supervisor.?

Question

He just wants to have s*x and I want more. I didn't think that I would get all emotional. I want to have him more but I can't. It bothers me to know that I'm not first in a mans life but I don't want leave him alone. He told he's cheating on his wife because her appetite for s*x is not as big as his. Why am I getting attach?? I would never want him for myself because his a dog. What would make me any better then your his wife, if he cheats on her than I'm sure he would do it to me. The s*x is more for him, I just like his company but I can't swallow the fact that I'm just a piece of a**. What do you think?? Mature responses only.

Answer 1

A mistress is just a piece of a**.... live and learn.

You're right he is a dog, but i hope for your sake you're not the one who wrecks his family...

Answer 2

Why are you asking for mature responses only?  Clearly neither you or this man are mature.  You are a homewrecker and he is a jacka*s.  You need to end this right now and get on with your life.  You are obviously very insecure so you may want to talk to a therapist or something so you can work on that.

Answer 3

what do u exspect from a married guy?Thats all u are going to be is a piece of *** cause he is married! He is not going to want u to become emotionally attached to him cause that would what he would not want and he has his wife to deal with already. I am sure she is attached to him to and he wont want another person. Just leave him be! U know he is not going to leave his wife for u! The reason why u got attached is cause of the s*x im sure or cause u guys have good communication!

Answer 4

I think that you no as well as everyone else that your just a piece of @ss so deal with it or do something about it like leave that man alone.

Answer 5

Honestly you need to break away from him! He's not gonna do anything for you! If s*x is all he wants then let him find someone else..when you have s*x with someone usually its emotional..you said it yourself he would cheat on you two..he's a dog let him go before you get hurt..distance yourself from him as much as you can..your worth more than a piece of *** and its so degrading!  Your a smart girl you know what you should do! Good luck!

Answer 6

I had to laugh; you state twice you want advice from mature adults only and yet you're having s*x with a married man...you will never mean anything to him, he using you and will never leave his wife. As for you getting attached, well, too bad. You are just another cheap low life s***k who helps a married man cheat on his wife and take your germs and God knows what else home to her. You must be SO proud of yourself!

Answer 7

Its good that you understand your situation, but to put it more bluntly, he isn't even paying for it. You are also risking your career if it comes out that you are sleeping with supervisor, and dont be suprised if when he gets bored with you, you get passed to another manager.

Answer 8

As a general rule for desirable results you should get the commitment you want from a man before giving him s*x.  He already has what he wants.  This is something that a woman should never compromise.  In his mind, he already has his cherishable and lovable woman at home.  He sees you as a disposable sexual object.  

Answer 9

That's the crappy part of being the other woman. You will never get him 100%. No matter what he says. Sorry. You sound smart enough to gradually break it off before you become too attached.

Answer 10

I don't see anything wrong with just maintaining the status quo.  He's getting his, you're getting yours and everyone is good.

Answer 11

Here's a major rule to this game sweety.  when someone tells you from the beginning that they are married and/or emotionally unavailable and you start to Catch feelings that it your problem.  Swallow your pride, shed a few tears and move on.  You trying to roll with the big dogs and you cant keep up.

Answer 12

He is clearly in it for the s*x.  If you want more than just s*x your not going to get it from him.   It would be better to break it off now, before you get emotionally attached like falling in love.

Answer 13

It is hard not to get attached when you have consistent relations with someone.  Just remember that there are a lot of other men you can form a good relationship with.  

Answer 14

You know you are being used for s*x, you know you have no future with him, you must also know that you are assisting him in doing a low down thing to his wife. What could there possibly be in this relationship for you? Get some self esteem and walk away, you are making a fool of yourself for a man that is worthless!

Answer 15

i thnk you ARE just a piece of *** and you know it.

single guys who you can get good s*x with are all around you. just take a good look. that way, you get what you want and you aren't hurting others.

Answer 16

You need to end it now - because it is wrong - and because the longer you go on with it - the more emotionally attached you will become - and the harder it will be to let go.  You dont want to be a piece of *** - that is exactly what you are.  

Answer 17

Well said ""nyjae".... So he's married, cheating on his wife with you because her "appetite for s*x" isn't good enough for him. You're just a piece of as$ to him. Aside from cheating with a married man,you sound as if you have a lot to offer someone. You should give that to someone that's willing to have you "come first" in their life.  Don't waste your time on someone, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

Answer 18

Well, yes, you are just a piece of a** and apparently a darned good one.  Why not just keep on having fun....you know you don't want him for anything more than s*x....why are you trying to make more of it?  Just keep doing what you are doing. If things go bad between you...you always have an excellent sexual harrassment suit - it will definitely fly and you'll be rich and have gotten laid a lot to boot.  

Answer 19

Women catch feelings, that's just a fact. You're sharing something intimate with him so of course you're feeling close.

Don't do it just for him. Since the pleasure's mostly gone, and you realize you're starting to like him yet you don't want to, give the relationship up. Be done with it, the sooner you cut off ties the better. Make any excuse you can.

Jerks like that get off on thinking they're manipulating two women.

Answer 20

When you lay with a dog, you are likely to get fleas.  You chose to s***w around with a married man, which makes BOTH you and he dogs.  Then you say you "want more" and are "emotional" about him...but in the next breath, say he's a dog and would probably cheat on you like he's doing on his wife now.  You ask for mature responses...I think YOU need to mature and stay away from married men

Answer 21

You really think that your action are mature. You have a lot of growing up to do. Your supervisor is having his cake and eating it to. If that is what floats your boat, then you don't need us for advise.

Answer 22

If you can't stand the fact that you are only a piece of *** for him, and that is how it will always be, then your only option is to end it. I think deep down you want him to suddenly see YOU and be like wow she is the woman I have been waiting for, leave his wife, and you two will live happily ever after. Well he already has a woman at home to cook for him, wash his clothes, and be mother to his children. He's not looking for a replacement for her, he's just looking for a piece of ***. That won't change.

Answer 23

You don't want him, because you have feelings for him. You just stated that. You want him, because you don't want to be second. Its like a competition with you. (pride) Get over it, and move on. Lesson learned.

Answer 24

The best thing you can do to yourself is to leave him alone.I know its hard because i have been there myself.

If you decide to stay with him,your feelings for him will get stronger and you are the one who will get hurt.

move on and find a single man

Answer 25

You two are on two different pages. He only wants s*x from you and you knew that going in. There is no relationship under those rules.

You should stop wasting your time with him and find a man who can love you. That's what you really want and you won't get that with him.

Answer 26

you really need to listen to yourself. you don't make ANY sense.

The answers are in your own words...

"I would never want him for myself because his a dog.", "I want to have him more but I can't."

This just doesn't make any sense.

you don't add up lady

Answer 27

Honest answer...leave him. He only wants you for the s*x and a good time. But he will never leave his wife for you. Don't get your hopes up because deep down you know what he really is looking for. Find your self someone better who is willing to love you. And always keep in mind that if he is capable of cheating on his wife what makes you less different.

Answer 28

I think you need to have more respect for yourself. Its there, because this bothers you, but you are still wanting more attention youre not going to get. I'm sure a lot of "other women" feel the same as you. Got yourself into a mess, you'll see it sooner or later, and you'll realize the whole thing was a mistake.

Answer 29

i think it is time to dump him.  you knew you couldnt get emotionally involved.  and now you need to take care of you.  move on and you will find someone who is all about you.

Answer 30

Happens all the time. You are the other woman. You'll always be the other woman as long as you stay in this relationship. If you want more you're going to have to find it in a relationship of your own with someone available.  

Answer 31

Doesn't sound like an affair to me. You are probably the talk of the office or plant which ever it is. He tried it wasn't the best or at least not good enough to leave his wife for. Move on and break (try) up a home. He will soon be old news with you and his wife.  The saying goes " If you lay with a dog you will catch his fleas"