I dont know... I used to be about 30-40 pounds over weight. May not seem like a lot but Im only 5'4 and very small boned so I had a lot of fat on me. I went through every eating disorder there is... anorexia, bulimia, over eating.. in every way. I have now reached a healthy weight and a healthy place mind wise where I do not do these things anymore. But it has only been about a year and a half since these issues have cleared up. I stopped when I met my husband. I never had real doctor help EVER. NO one ever really knew what was going on - I did it all pretty secretly. People knew I was loosing weight and my mom called me anorexic as a joke - not knowing there were real problems behind it ( I didnt live with her). Now I feel fine. i worry about the way I look, yes but I eat normally and am healthy and not over weight at all.
But I feel like food still runs my life. I think about it all the time. I hate eating in front of people, even my husband. I would MUCH rather eat while he is at work. If he asks me if I ate something, even if it's not a big deal, I still feel like I want to lie and say no i didnt eat it. If he eats something that is mine, I feel angry. Really honestly angry - like how could he possibly eat that when he knew it was mine? But I don't want anyone to know that I feel this way because its JUST FOOD!! I dont over eat at all but i feel like people are thinking I am if I finish an entire meal in front of them - though if Im alone I have no problem. I watched an episode of "intervention" once with a bulimic girl and she said "I dont know if I will ever be OK with food..." It reminded me of me. Will I ever be okay or my 6 years of hiding eating disorders haunt me forever? Has anyone else ever gone through this aftermath?
I am the "pretty popular hairstylist" - it is sooo hard for me to admit that there are really problems deep down from my past as stupid as food. I fake okay and eat food at work, trying to make myself normal. And I know Im making it up, but I still feel like when I eat, people are watching me and judging what I eat and thinking Im too fat and I dont need it. I know it sounds like I don't but I promise I DO eat normally in reality - I eat a fair amount - but I feel guilty about it and judged by it. I like to go out and buy food during the day so that when my husband comes home, he cant tell that Ive eaten. Its weird and I wanna GET OVER IT!!
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