Obssesion for neighboor?

Question

Ok im 13 years old and there is this guy across the street whos 17, and I am like in love with him so much hes so hot and I like to spy on him when hes in his house, and sometimes I touch myself a lot thinking about him. I want him so bad but if I told him he'd probably think im insane if a 13 year old girl is askign him out:(. What should I do?

Answer 1

Try to like someone else your own age...That way you spend time  with that person and like forget about your neighbor!

Answer 2

You dont love him.............u lust for him. There is a big difference. Take your hands out of your panties and stop stalking the guy. If you can think about having s*x already, i think you can atleast practice control and self discipline!

Answer 3

That's normal, but if you REALLY liked him, you wouldn't pursue him. (Ask him out, make it known you like him, ect..) Because that could get him in some trouble!  

Answer 4

i would say its normal, but if you were really 13 you probably wouldnt be comfortable talking about it on yahoo answers. so i am thinking you are a creepy old man. and if you are a 13 year old, you are borderline stalking him. give him some privacy and lay off. wait until you and your parents decide you are old enough to have a boyfriend!

Answer 5

go for it i wouldd tooo  maybe he would understand like go to the moviess be close friendsss he doesnt have to go out with youu

Answer 6

This is called a crush, it is normal and will go away with time. When you get older, it will be not so bad. You will still get interested in guys sometimes, but it won't be an obsession anymore.

Answer 7

well i know what u mean, and i know its hard, cuz its happened to me. well im 17yo guy, and my best friend has a little sister, who is 12, except unlike u, she was more (wats the word) ambitious- thts means, she really wants sumthing- anyway she did sumthing tht crossed all bounderies, well she suprised me to say the least. lets jst say the things tht u want to do with ur neighbour, she did to me, well sum, not like s*x or anything thts wrong, but if i didnt cut it off from the start, this would and could have become very troublesome, and the rest of my life could have been in ruin, not to mention i could get in alot of trouble if i went along with it, but i had to sit down and tell her tht we couldnt ever work out, becasue she's way too young for me, not to mention morals and ethics, and common sense, but even tho i knew it was a silly crush she had, i still know that she felt a litle disapointment and sadness, well she was bawling but thts natrual. but ya, u cant get with tht guy  cuz u can get him in alot of trouble if u do, like tht girl could have gotten me in alot of trouble, so ya, plz dont try anything on him, i know from experience tht it will freak him out, like it did me.

Answer 8

he looks hot because if hes 17 he is probly hotter than any guy your age. let go of him. its probly healthier to forget about him.

Answer 9

well first of all; dont say your in love with him...

thats kinda pathetic saying you like him because it doesnt sound like you even know him .   that was a bit too much info saying you "touch yourself"  ew, thats kinda creepy

uhhhhhh and i think you shuold find someone your own age.  

Answer 10

just ask him out, he will like you.. but be careful, might just use you also.

Answer 11

Keep an eye on him i think you would be surprised.

Answer 12

Find someone else.  He is too old for you.  By the time you get old enough to be with him he will be married.

Answer 13

sorry, but you are spying on him! you are violating the law by violating peoples privacy! sorry, but I reported you.