We invited someone to our wedding who is very tight with money. He responded saying that he will come, but doesn't plan on giving a gift or red packet (chinese wedding). He also noted that he is travelling on after the wedding to watch a grandprix motor race.
We found this response really offensive, we have been very generous to this person over the years, but don't know what to do. We are only inviting around 50 people so there are many others we could invite instead. We are feeling like we don't want this person there with this attitude. It is not that we only want to invite people who offer gifts, but we want people there who are excited as us to share our special day.
Can we stop him coming? What should we do? Thanks...
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