Officially Qutting Masturbation- good or not? ?

Question

I am a 15 year old boy doing it for the past year and a half. I did it twice today, hoping that second time waas my last. I've been doing it the past year and a half and at one point i didn't do it for 2 months, but then got right back into it, but I am very disciplined and if i tell myself i wont do it until xyz, i wont. I tend to get horny a lot, but I really believe I can find a way to control myself- by not watching p**n, loooking at hot girls, etc.. And now that schools starting it will be a lot easier. I know deep inside if i really didn't want to do it, i could control it. But would it be a smart choice to hold off for a while that way it will feel a lot better and show more self control and make me stronger. It will also give my sperm some time to reload. I figure if I can wait a couple months, maybe like in november, december, i'll treat myself to a little "session". Is this a good idea? And yes I kow it's healthy and all.

Answer 1

NOT GOOD!!!!!!!!!! If it pops up why waste it,the only way to stop it is get a girlfriend,use it or loose it holding off for awhile will give you wet dreams(messy)

Answer 2

0you'll do it again, you are a g*y, you have to release it somehow

Answer 3

You should m********e maybe once every 2 weeks, cuz in one article it says that masturbating flushes out some part of ur tubes or w/e decreasing chances of cancer or something i dont remember the article.

Answer 4

Well good luck. I've no idea why youare being so cruel to yourself. Are yuo planning on being a buddhist monk?

Answer 5

What is your reason for quitting? Masturbation is good, Masturbation is not a sin . i cant think of anything bad about it. I'm old enough to be your dad and Ive been masturbating for 30 years and I have no bad side affects only a life spent with a lot more of enjoyable moments. I don't understand why it is that you are wanting to convince yourself to stop.

Answer 6

I dont know?

Answer 7

It won't make you stronger or better.  In fact it is NOT healthy -- in any imaginable way.  If you are not masturbating regularly it increases your risk of prostate cancer long term, and your risk of Prostatis (a painful infection) short term.  Additionally, studies have shown that when someone doesn't m********e regularly their p***s shrinks somewhat.

You are being obsessive, that's why you want "control" -- but all it will do to stop masturbating is hurt you.  Get over the false guilt and lies you have been taught, and enjoy your own body without guilt, shame, or any of the other silliness.  

Live and love yourself and others -- and that includes being able to m********e regularly with no problems.

Again, it is NOT healthy to not m********e.

Kind thoughts,

Hermes

Answer 8

You produce about a million sperm a second so You don't need time to "reload" because your fine. In fact statistics show that the more often a man ejaculates the better his sperm production is. It doesn't raise your sperm count you just make better sperm.

You ask this question like you think your an addict or you think you can't control yourself. That's not what's happening here. You have perfect self control. I know a guy who masturbates 5-6 times a day, and even he isn't out of control so how could you be?

That average amount of masturbation for a masturbation addict is around 22 times a day! So your definatly not an addict either.

There is no need for you to quit, just have fun. You are like any normal healthy young male. Two times a day is nothing so don't worry about it. Just enjoy yourself.

Also there are no bad things that will happen from masturbation, it's good for you and nothing harmfull will happen to you because of it.

-Connor

Answer 9

What would we do without these wanking questions?

Answer 10

I seriously don't understand why everyone seems to think that masturbating is bad or will hurt you. It's not bad, and it won't hurt you. It's normal and natural. There's no reason to stop. If you truly wanted to stop, you would, and you wouldn't have to ask for tips, help, or whether it was a good idea.

Answer 11

Well since you know what the "feel good" feeling feels like its really about your self discipline.

Its not really good or bad... Its YOUR choice. The fact that your not having actual s*x is good, you can wait on that.

But if you want to work on self discipline I think this is a good example and start...  

Answer 12

It's normal for a teenager to feel a bit guilty at times when they m********e.  Just recognize this for what it is -- a normal part of growing up, both the masturbation and the guilt.

Try to concentrate on doing your studies really well and that will help to keep your mind off it.  But also realize that your body will call out for 'sexual relief' from time to time since you have 'raging hormones'.  If you do not m********e, then you will most likely have 'wet dreams'.

As you get closer to begin a fully grown man beyond the age of 18, you will come to terms better with your male body and its needs.  You will be better able to deal with any guilt feelings which, after all, are really only a temporary let-down after you ejaculate.  Plus when you are 18 and older, you can start looking for lady friends with which to share your sexual experience.  Don't rush it.  No one if going to give you a prize for losing your virginity before you are a fully grown man and can deal with handling a relationship with the ladies.

Relax.  You are a completely normal teenager.  Just recognize that what you are feeling and doing is part of your 'raging hormones'.  Yes, try to do it in moderation, but most guys don't quit completely.  Your body still needs relief from time to time.

Answer 13

nature will take its course before you do if you wait for a period of months before ejaculating. if your not having s*x and want to cut down on the masturbation you might want to try every couple of weeks. wet dreams will start up if you don't m********e.

so, unless you don't mind waking up in a sticky mess once and awhile, just cut the action down some ;-)

Answer 14

try to have patient.....

when you feel  u will lose ur control  just take a huge breath

try to concentrate about your main aim.... imean why did u sttopped MB

Good luck pal

Answer 15

Don't stop.

Masturbation relieves stress!