Oh, I could strangle my boyfriend right now!?

Question

A few months back i told him he needed to work on his hygiene b/c he wasn't shaving, brushing his teeth or showering regularly. Well things have been better lately except when he sleeps over he doesn't shower or brush his teeth, even if he stays around the whole day (he has clothes and a toothbrush here). Well he just left this morning and when he got home he called to tell me that my hygiene has been slipping lately. He said i never stink but i don't comb my hair as much as i used to. I cook all his meals for the week on Sunday and i do my hair in the morning to go grocery shopping but i pull it back when i cook so i don't get hair in his food. And on fridays i clean houses so i pull it back so it doesn't fall in toilets etc. and he gets to my house earlier than he used to so its not done when he gets here (its always done before i go out). Tuesday is the only other day i see him and i usually have it done except this week i was at cedar point so i pulled it back so it wouldn't be in my face all day on the roller coasters. I am so angry right now! Next time he tries to kiss me i want to tell him "back off, you wouldn't want to ruin my perfect hair and make up". WTF is his problem?

Answer 1

For me, Turnoffs are:

1. Not Brushing Teeth

2. Not Shaving

3. Not showering

4. Bad Breath

5. B.O

6. Icky Teeth

YOU KNOW WHAT. HE AINT WORTH IT. DUMP HIS BUTT!  

Answer 2

I had this problem with my guy. You need to be blunt, and to the point.

No offense to the guys out there, but alot of the guys that I met don't quite understand "girl speak". What I mean by that is girls put alot more detail into a conversation and they tend to make it confusing, as women are more emotional and tend to see things differently than men.

So just tell him "Honey, no offense, but you stink." If he takes offense, say "I just wanted to tell you that so you wouldn't get embarassed in public".

He also needs to understand that sometimes, maybe you just need a "lazy day". That includes running around in your pj's, putting your messy hair up in a bun, whatever.

If he tells you that you don't brush your hair anymore, just say "well at least I take baths!" lol

Good luck!

Answer 3

He is just emmbarassed cause you told him about his bad hygiene and know his trying to get even so that u can get emmbarassed and feel like he does.

Answer 4

You should tell him that! Like when he tries to kiss you you should tell him what you said! Then explain gently.

Answer 5

lol that sucks

Answer 6

Obviously your dating a person that genarally doesn't care about being clean....it'll omly get worse

Answer 7

He was probably embarrassed and a bit offended when you called him out on his hygiene a couple of months ago and it could be his way of showing you that you aren't so perfect either in that area.