Oh My God!!! Girls are so confusing!!!?

Question

I know a girl (maybe a woman, a little too old to call her a girl) who talks well and behaves well with me. We behave as pure friends. No other ideas in her or my mind.

She tells me that we can go for lunch or shopping or somewhere. But just few hours before doing so, she just texts me and says that she cant make it. C'mon! She initiates it, and she declines it. What is going on?? Iam so confused !!!

This has happened atleast 4 times in the last 3 days. Has been happening frequently? Is she trying to avoid me or what ?

Answer 1

i'm sorry, but obvoiusly you're not that important to her.

Answer 2

I'm not sure.. but it seems "being with you" is not a priority.. when she has anything come up she easily cancels you...

she keeps you on the side to be with when she is bored and has nothing better to do..

Answer 3

you are the third wheel to her game, she keeps you on the side mat then when her ''other'' friends can't hand with her she needs you. are you that boring?

ps we are not confusing we just have important things to do duh