Oh...how to brake up...?

Question

Ookay..heres the situation

My friend wants to break up with her boyfriend, OVER TEXT! Is this ookay....?

Oh, and he knows something is wronge to, He probably suspects something...Am I the only one who thinks thats crazy?...♥

Answer 1

Breaking up through text is just low, she shouldnt do that, tell her to give him the courtesy of at least breaking up with him in person

Answer 2

over text let her text..no big deal. end result would be the same

Answer 3

Thats really shallow! I think that since he already suspects something than she should wait until he mentions it again than break up at the moment to make things easier. But texts is too impersonal. If anything over the phone is a lil better.

Answer 4

well you have to be real sudden and nice. tell him all the good things about him . and then all wrong things next.

Answer 5

Breaking up over a text is a horrible idea.

Answer 6

WTF, have you read answers before ?

Breaking up with text or e-mail is WRONG , it only proves your a looser and not worth going out with if you give news like that.

I'm sure if I knew anyone who ever did that they would spend years looking for another date. I'd tell everyone I knew you were a heartless fool.

Answer 7

Kinda, a bit mean though.. haha, just tell her to ask her friend to ring him up from her phone and say "Why is your number in my girlfriends phone"

Usually works :)

Answer 8

I your friend can't face up to break up, she'll regret it for a long time unless she has no feelings.

Do it face to face and then you can always be proud of handling it in a mature way, and there will be less hard feelings - leading to less c**p talk later.

Answer 9

Breaking up in a text/email/IM/over the phone BAD IDEA.  So rude!

Answer 10

I think doing it that way is in poor taste...and it's immature.  What happened to giving the person the respect you would want and breaking up with the person like a man/woman?  People are just becoming so nonchalant about everything.  

Answer 11

yes thats ok a lot of people break up by using their cell phones.

Answer 12

Go on, tell her to break the poor pal's heart.

--♥-->

If the break-up deserves only a poor text message, then the relationship probably wasn't serious.

Answer 13

She must not think much of him if she's gonna dump him in a text...

Answer 14

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK...

Text Message Break Up (yes, with kelly)

Answer 15

This is the most insane thing in the world... not only is this immature, it is also a slap in the face to her boyfriend... not to mention what he is going to tell his friends... She is going to be that crazy girl that broke up with him over a TEXT. She should tell him straight to his face and be mature about it... and if she can't, she shouldn't be dating in the first place.

Answer 16

NO! Tell her to grow up. Do it in person, honestly tell them why yo dont want to be with them anymore. Break ups are not that bad if done right. if you tell them honestly they will respect you much more than you dragging them along. yeah they maybe mad at the time but get over it quicker and better if you are honest.

Answer 17

yea over text is okay.

Answer 18

No! Why cant she just tell him over the phone at least?

Thats not cool! Well, I mean, maybe she doesnt want to break it to him in person. Who knows? People have a mind of their own and even though we do have things like "Yahoo Answers" or whatever else, people are going to do whatever the heck they want regardless. Maybe thats what she thinks is best for thier relationship. Dont medal until you see something gone REALLY wrong.

Answer 19

Not Crazy,

I think your friend should break up with him face to face unless he is dangerous. There is no reason she should hide behind her phone.

Answer 20

It's BREAK up.

And anyway is fine. Is (s)he is going to be a drama queen over it, do not give a c**p.

Answer 21

You stick your foot on the wide pedal on the floor board.  

Answer 22

its very cowardly to break up over text. tell the person straight to the face so you wouldn't regret what you're gonna say. and so you can see the reaction of the person you're going to break up with.

Answer 23

NOO! NOT THROUGH A TEXT!!! oh, god, i hate it when ppl do this!!

Answer 24

watch text message breakup on youtube

with kelly

you'll understand

Answer 25

At least talk to him.  He'll probably call her as soon as he gets it anyways.  How insulting that she doesn't even care enough to say goodbye in person, or at least over the phone.

Answer 26

she shouldnt do it over textt.

do it face to face, please tell her that

Answer 27

no, text dumps are crazy, stupid, and crazy!

watz the guy like, big and rough? and wy iz she dumpin himm?

Answer 28

it isn't all that crazy because text is  ALOT easier than being in person the thing is that when text u wont have to see ur ex yell (if he does) but i hope ur friend has fun

Answer 29

It is not ok to break up with someone over text. Think about it if you were in their shoes? Do you want someone to break up with you over a text? How would you feel?

Good Luck!

Answer 30

k umm text...NOOO...she shud just tell him straight upp.