Oh m gosh! please help me. i know this is the wrong catagory but i wasnt getting answers in the right one.?

Question

Ok, my boyfriend of 3 and a half months [were in middle school so that pretty d**n long] just dumped me 3 days ago. i was SOOOOOO crush. and now, its really seems like he likes one of my best friends. She was trying to figure out who he liked now and he said 1) shes one of my good friends 2) she rides my bus and 3) she makes me laugh a lot. My friend is ALL of that! And now shes saying she likes him ALOT! I HAVENT EVEN STARTED TO MOVE ON FROM HIM YET!!!!!!!!!!!! she knows im really upset/pissed about this. but, what am i supposed to do if he asks her out? shes gunna want to really bad, but if she tells him no because of me hes going to hate me. and i really dont want him to. if they do start to go out, i dont think i can be her friend anymore. do you think this is to harsh? please just a little help here...

Answer 1

If she's really a good friend she wouldn't do that to you, especially when you just broke up. I wouldn't be friends with her either if she did that.

Answer 2

NO THATS NOT HARSH AT ALL.AND iF SHE iS REALLY A "FRiEND" THEN SHE WOULDNT GO OUT WiT HiM,AND THAT GUY iS NO GOOD FOR TRYiN TO GO OUT WiT YOUR FRiEND.AND iF HE GO WiT UR FRiEND GO OUT WiT HiS...NAH! JUST KiDDiN BUT iT JUST AN iDEA

Answer 3

Shouldnt no boy ever get between ur friendship.

Why not let her go out with him if u guys are done.

I mean thats reality: u may not want to move on, but dont you want ur friend to be happy?

Sometimes u gottah put aside your feelings and think about the bigger picture.She is one of your BEST friends. Do u know what that means?u cant just drop her as a friend b.c of some boy that u broke up with. There will be a thousand other boys that will come and go throughout each of u guys friendship and if u let one ruin it then u were never really BEST friends to begin with or even friends at all.

So..Ask her how much going out with him means to her.Does she like him a lot, a little or what. Cuz while your hurting over him now, she's hurting to b.c she doesnt want u to get hurt even more. Dont make her make a decision that can split u guys apart, be supportive of her no matter how much you dont want to.. And dont worry they wont work out anyway :P

&& w.e to the other posts. U cant help who u like and if her best friend likes him, she shouldnt just not go out with him if he likes her back b.c of a previous relationship. I hate when ppl say that..its B.S