Oh wow. Help. Very awkward moment between my mom's bf and Me

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Oh wow. Help. Very awkward moment between my mom's bf and Me

Okkk. so my mom leaves in the morning and her BF doesn't have to go to work until later in the day. I had no idea that he had stayed the night so I went into my mom's room and he was laying on the bed masturbating. I was like woah sorry and i shut the door, but then he called me and he was like "hey it's all good, we're both men (he's still masturbating) what did you need bud'? and i was just liko. Oh no it's ok. I'll just come back later and i shut the door and walked away. What should i do? Tell? He act's like nothing happened but it's really awkward for me. Help

Answer 1

that would be akward, I would do everything  in my power to forget it. Never bring it up again, it is kinda gross that he kept doing it. but anyway if you tell your mom then that could end it with her and him, if you dont care about that then ure tell her. but if you dont want her to konw and you tell your friends, it is almost deffinatley going to get back to her, But yeah that does seem a little sketchy, I would be very careful around him from now on.  

Answer 2

Not anything to do. You caught a guy masterbating.  No reason to "tell" anyone. Be a good guy and keep quiet; all guys m********e, even those in relationships like to have some solo s*x now and then. He was apparently not really embarrassed by getting caught by you, but might cause you problems if you tell your mother.   He's just a guy doing normal guy stuff, so just chill out and consider it another experience for you.  

Answer 3

uhh just move on.

but everyone does do it though.

Answer 4

Well, masturbating is a normal thing for both guys and girls. It's a tabu thing, and I guess that because you caught him in the act you feel like this is very awkward. But if he really didn't make anything of it, then maybe you shouldn't make anything of it as well.

Answer 5

Alright im sure your nothing but embarresed bout it right? well there are several things that you can do about this unfortunate "problem".

you can speak to a friend about it just to get it of your chest & im sure you will both laugh about =]

You can talk to your moms bf and tell him that your sorry about walking in on him and u didnt know he was in there.

You can also talk to your mom abouti it.. yes VERY VERY awkward i know, but not every femalwe is happy with thre partner masturbating. i think the best thing to do is tell someone (eg a friend) and just tell your mom in a humorious sort of way and see how she takes it.

i hope ive helped. good luck and i hope things work out good for you =]

Answer 6

It sounds like he wanted you to either join him or help him.Either way if it happens again you should tell your mom.In the mean time try and not end up alone with him.

Answer 7

I can't understand where most of these answers are coming from.

He is an adult and you are not.  He is not your father.  Can you imagine your father acting that way?  I doubt it.  Tell your mom.  If she doesn't act like it's an issue, tell another adult that you trust.

I actually hope that this is a joke, because otherwise I'm concerned that this may not be over.

Answer 8

nothing did happen. he masturbated, as you do. who are you going to tell and why? forget it. it's a nothing.

♣

Answer 9

"hey it's all good, we're both men (he's still masturbating) what did you need bud'?

---- I'm not a man, but THIS SENTENCE SEEMS INCREDIBLY EFFED UP.  

Answer 10

next time....knock?

Answer 11

It sounds like your mom's BF is just opened minded,well atleast i hope he is.You did the right thing by walking away.If he does do it again then i would tell your mom.I hope it doesn't happen again.

Answer 12

tell a friend

Answer 13

i would sleep with an eye open if i were you...i have heard storys like that  a few to many times

Answer 14

Oh wow...awkward is an understatement.  

Answer 15

tell ur mom and sleep with a knife or a gun who knos what he'll do

Answer 16

theres kinda a g*y thing going on there but if he dont come on to you thin its all fine dude

Answer 17

I think a lot of people accidentally walk in on family members or their significant other at the wrong time. It's kind of odd that he kept talking to you, though. I don't think there is any reason to "tell" but I would talk to the BF about it and maybe it would be less awkward.

Sorry that's not much help, but it happens a lot more than you think.

Answer 18

I don't mean to be Embarrassing but, maybe he & your Mom had Great s*x the night before and him Masturbating, before showering & getting ready for work, was a 'turn-on'. It's not as if he left the door OPEN so you could see him!

As for 'still masturbating' I'm sure he was just 'stroking' not REALLY going at if Full Gun! He may have thought it would make you feel less embarrassed. After ALL, he is a Man and was 'once' a young teenager  also. He knows about the j/o thingy!

I REALLY would NOT mention it to your Mom.....It was no Biggie... why create 'tension'  in your Household.

Keep it to yourself for now ....who knows in time you'll both laugh about it.

Answer 19

While there is technically nothing wrong with him masturbating, when he called you back to the room to find out what you needed, he should not have still been doing it! That was inappropriate! You should bring this to your Ma's attention and let her know how uncomfortable this made you feel!

Answer 20

so you caught someone w-nking you do it so what's the big deal just carry on as normal

Answer 21

i would say dont even worry about it.

put it out of your mind. tell your friends about it, laugh, and move on.....