Ok, I will re-ask.. I am not hacker! I just want to prove that my bro-in-law is cheating.?

Question

I want my husbands sister to get on with her life and I believe (as does my husband) that her husband married her for a VISA. She is so blind and is going to get so hurt and I just want to help her!

Answer 1

Do you have any evidence to show that he's cheating.  Gather up some evidence and present it to her.  

Answer 2

Please don't get in the middle, it will only come back to get you in the end.  She probably already knows what is going on and is turning a blind eye to it, many women do.

Answer 3

Mind your business if she wants to know she will find out.  

Answer 4

It's in your best interest to let her make her own choices for herself.

She can't learn from your experience nor from your knowledge.  Just be there to help her pick up the pieces if and when her marriage falls apart.

Sometimes being the "good guy" means you have to step back and wait in the sidelines.

Answer 5

This is their problem.  I know it can be frustrating to watch someone you love remain in a bad situation.  As with any other bad situation, she will not leave until she realizes for herself that there is no hope for her relationship.  It doesn't matter what you say or prove.  It's up to her to find her way.  If her way is even to remain knowing he has cheated, just be there to support her and you will have done your part.  You have to respect her decisions.

Answer 6

Dam

Hope you didn't say anything to her.

Nothing like telling someone that they are being used, people don't take kindly to that kind of motivation.

That would be like me telling you that you husband is using you for a housemaid.

She is going to need you & your husband when the time comes that she sees him for what he really is.

Answer 7

you really should mind your own business.  this is not something you want to be blamed for in the end.

Answer 8

Are you even aware that you did not ask a question?  However, my advice would be to stay out of it.  Furthermore, rather than trying to break up a marriage, you should be putting that energy to use trying to figure out how to make it better.  Maybe you should invite them to your house for dinner so that you all can spend some quality time together.

Answer 9

Stay out of it.  You'll be the bad guy.

Answer 10

ok what does he do? if he never spends time at home and acts like he is uninterested in her then those are some sign that there is someone else in the picture.  

Answer 11

No matter how well intentioned your motives, when you attempt to come between a coupe or interfere, you will be the villain in the piece. Let them work through it. You can't protect people from their own mistakes in life.