Ok, i think I may want to try something. Im straight, but....?

Question

Iv'e been thinking about this for a while, i want to just try something new and meet a nice girl who i may want to date. I dont want to meet just someone of the street or get someone from a club. Hey your only young once, any advice on how I should go about this?

Answer 1

Well, like someone already said, you may want to start by not saying "I'm straight, but...."  I think that could send some girls running in the opposite direction.  I'm sure you are friends with someone who is g*y, or has another friend that is g*y.  Try and get together with them and you'll probably run into someone you may fancy!  You could always join match.com or yahoo personals and put yourself down for wanting to find a woman to go on a date with. Just make sure your intentions are clear.  

Good luck!!  

Answer 2

Try a few 'personal ads' at different sites for your area.

State EXACTLY what you are and aren't looking for.

(i.e. butch or femme..long or short term romance..

casual dating...etc.)

Be sure to screen responders VERY well before actually

going out and meeting them.

OR

Do you know any lesbians or bi girls?

They would be glad to introduce you around their circle.

OR

Perhaps you could attend the next g*y-pride parade

or similar event in your area.

Good Luck

Be Safe

Have Fun

Answer 3

My suggestion?  If you want to meet someone with romantic intent, but are concerned about approaching someone who isn't interested in women as well, try a GLBT dating site.  Be up front that you are bi-curious and that you are looking to meet and get to know romantically rather than (it sounds from the tone of your question) just a tumble.  If you have any friends you feel safe in confiding in, they may be able to help.

Answer 4

try online dating  

Answer 5

Don't try and force it.  If you really think you might be interested in a L*****n relationship then go where Lesbians hang out- google g*y and your city name to find out what's on in your area- and see who you meet and get on with.  Please be honest though, it's not fair to promise a relationship when all you want is an experimental bit of fun.    You need to treat any woman you meet with the same kindness, honesty and respect you would expect others to afford you, these are people's lives you're dealing with.  It isn't kind to treat a woman as some sort of vacation from men.

Answer 6

Well, I'm not a great believer in online dating - only because a friend met up with a few and they were all computer obsessed, they had no social skills within the public, it was all online.  Why not try a g*y bar ?

Don't get me wrong, you can meet 'the one' online, I'm just giving my own opinion.  Good luck though !

Answer 7

too weird, i was sayin the same thing over a month ago. I happened to have a party and a friend brought her. weve been dating for almost a month. its been great. so, have a party, or go to a friends party. just be adventerous.

Answer 8

my only advice wouold be to record everything...'everything' WAHOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

Answer 9

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Answer 10

perhaps if you stopped identifying as straight, more people would be open to you. what you are is bi-curious. try letting people know and something will happen for you...

Answer 11

Try one of your friends who you like to try with. Explain your friends why you want to do that and probably that's just for fun or summat.

Answer 12

have 'lunch' with her like girlfriends (just friends) do.

talk and get her number if you decide you still like her.

is she a L*****n?

if she is, tell her you think you may want to give dating her a shot but you have been straight all your life so you are new to this.

then see what she says.

if not...if she's not a L*****n, find a L*****n.

and um.

nothing against g*y people or lesbians.

you might want to become L*****n instead of straight after this.

soooo. i'd think about how this will change/affect your life.

i mean after dating a girl it will be hard to date a guy.

just saying.

(:

Answer 13

If you don't want to meet someone off the street or in a club, then your choices are a little limited!

Try:

- Social networking sites

- Dating websites

- Chatrooms

- g*y & L*****n cafes

Also if you know anyone who swings that way they could help introduce you to a like minded female. The only way you're going to meet people is to get to know more people who can link you with bisexual/L*****n females.

Good luck :)  

Answer 14

I will help you experiment

Answer 15

dating website

Answer 16

The risks are too high, aid, get to know the lucky person.

Answer 17

Go to a decent g*y club and try to find someone in the same situation as you, it will be less embarrasing ;)