Ok, people, this is very serious! adults only, please!?

Question

i'm 26, have been dating much older man for more than a year. i love him but never told him that, because was not sure he feels the same way and didn't want to put him in an awkward situation. he is taurus, very sensitive and hard on words, cannot always express his feelings verbally.

So ok, last night we were making love, and while I was giving a b. job to him, i heard him say "i love you'. in the beginning i thought it only seemed to me because he said it with whisper, but then i heard it second time, louder, he said it again. i didn't answer anything on that, just kept doing what i was doing, and here I am today, thinking about it all day long, and again NOT sure that he said these words last night!! eveN though I'm sure 99% percent i heard it.

Should i ask him? should i text him? what to do? We don't live together. so i may not see him tonite. what would YOU do and how to react on this?

advise is needed. Thanks.

Answer 1

wow it would defiantly be weird to hear I love you for the first time while giving someone a ******** but I think the only way to get this off your chest is to tell him how you feel  

Answer 2

Your stakes are 99 against 1 since you are 99% sure that you heard what you did.

Put yourself into his shoes. Think about the poor "old" chap. He tried twice to convey his feelings. He might be going through a tough time. If he really loves you (which you heard him say) then he might be thinking things like:

- ****, why did I say, she did not even react to my feelings

- Oh, looks like I am having one sided feelings, she's not serious

- Well I should have guessed, she is ONLY interested in s*x and I thought we were in love

- I should have known, I am too older than she is

BELIEVE ME I CAN GO ON AND ON....putting myself into his shoes...

Having said that, go on, get in touch with him the fastest way you can and read your question on yahoo to him and know his real feelings.

HIH, ATB

Answer 3

I suggest not texting him to tell him you love him, you should say it in person. Since you've been dating over a year, I'm sure he loves you too. Just tell him, what's the worst that could possibly happen?

Sorry I can't offer any better advice.

Answer 4

he might of been saying it in the heat of the moment

but if he says it again say it back

dont text him or anything and ask about it

just call him to talk about your day