Ok, so I promised my BFF4ever that i'd never cut again...?

Question

but i have such an erg too.. yet, somehow i know it won't make things better.. I want to do it, and take my mind off things, but i dun wanna break my promise, cause i know she'd be mad... yet, even though i want to, i know it won't help... What do i do?

Answer 1

Get some professional help. Go to your school councilor/guidance worker. Cutting is an addiction like alcohol, and just going cold turkey isn't always the most productive way to stop.

Answer 2

You are transferring the responsibility for your actions onto her. You are cutting to avoid something bad.

You need to learn how to own your issues and take responsibility for yourself! Find out what you are trying to avoid and face it head on and fight it.That will be the ONLY way you cure this permanently.

Psychiatric help will be needed. Counselling.

Come on, take responsibility for yourself, stop putting it onto everyone else. Stop blaming your friend for not being able to cut yourself! Fight your own battles and stand on your own two feet!!!!!

Answer 3

don't you cut yourself hun..its not gonna help, infact it'll make you hurt physically as well as emotionally then. just take a deep breath and relax and clear your mind

Answer 4

^_^

Answer 5

you sound like my friend reed. i asked him to stop doing the things he does because its slowly killing him and he said he would stop.

ok you want to think about if you died today think about how your parents would feel and how your friends would feel. think of them crying endlessly for you. don't yourself, slowly begin to love yourself and have fun and be happy. Ask your friends to help you get better. go a psychiatrist or counselor. Please stop.