Ok... How to tell my mom and dad?

Question

I'm pregnant, 15, and the guy that is the father... Well my parents already dislike him! What do I do???

Answer 1

go back in time ...while your there save Jesus and Abraham Lincon

or.....you can either run away from home and join the circus

the carny life is actually very swell

i don't think you have anyother options

  

Answer 2

aint much u can do now....if its too much to tell em urself, have a trusted family member tell em--while u are not around

Answer 3

You have to be honest with your parents. Your family is your only real ally in life. Tell your parents and let them help you through this situation before things get worse. I know it's hard but give them a chance to help you. Believe or not they are only going to do what's best for you and your baby.

Good luck!!

Answer 4

You gotta tell them straight up, better now than later.

Answer 5

....um dont has s*x at 15? wait...d**n too late. Same for your hopes and dreams.

Answer 6

ohh wow umm just straight up tell your parents and take any punishment this is a serious matter and there the only ones who can really help you

hopee i helped

Answer 7

Tell them the truth, and tell them right away. Things will be a lot better in the long run if you get everything out on the table now.

And for god sakes stop having s*x, hopefully this will teach you a lesson.

Answer 8

The only thing you can do is tell them. You can't hide it forever, especially when your belly starts to show! Might as well just get it over with and tell them now. The out come will be the same weather you tell them now or later. Just pick a day, and practice what your gonna say. They will get over it sooner or later! Hopefully sooner! Good luck!! ^__^

Answer 9

Be brutally honest with them, the earlier you tell them, the more help they can give you, dont worry about reprocussions just concentrate on yourself and your unborn child. And your not really 15 are you???

Answer 10

why don't you invite the baby's father family to your  house to have dinner with your family there you can have a talk with your  family and your boyfriend family they'll have to understand the problem just talk to them and let them know what happened,,, good luck....

Answer 11

noooooooo! ugh "/ whyyy.

juss tell them str8 up. maybe right a letter or something and let them read it infront of your face.?

Answer 12

just tell them, the soner the better, they are going to find out, you can't hide it

Answer 13

You must tell them.  Oh and stop worrying about you brother.  You can't compare yourself to others.  You have to accept that you have choices in life and they are yours to make.  Decide to make the right choices and you will SHINE.  Trust me.

Answer 14

wow maybe u should watch The Secret Life of the American teenager on abc family(abcf) every tuesday at eigth o'clock Amy Jergins is in the same position im srry about ur unwanted preganancy but tell ur mom when she is calm and not in a bad mood i think u should have ur mom tell ur dad

Answer 15

The sooner you tell them the better. You and your pregnancy need medical attention, and this is more important than their feelings about the father. If your worried about telling them, can you talk to a teacher or school counsellor? Your doctor?    

You need suppport

Answer 16

My  d. didn't tellus she was preg. and when 9 mnths was up she had no dr.  care and now her baby has health problens

Answer 17

Don't Abort the baby. just tell them how it happened and if they love you then they'll understand

Answer 18

You've got two choices. You can either go get a secret abortion and your parents will never know, or you just have to tell them.

There isn't a magic way that will make it easier and putting it off isn't going to help. Eventually they will notice your "bump" and by then you will have lost out on important prenatal care that is vital to making sure your baby is healthy. Bite the bullet and just tell them. The worst has already happened, what do you really have left to worry about?  

Answer 19

I went through this, although I was a couple years older. It is going to be hard, very hard.

All you can do is just suck it up and do it.

Sit them, or one of them down when the time is right. When they have nothing else on their mind, or aren't busy doing something else. If they are a bit busy, let them know you need to speak with them when the time is right and to let you know when they have a bit to spare.

They are going to get angry and upset. They are going to be upset with you, the boy, and even at themselves.

But, when the family is involved it makes it a much better time!

Your going to have to "grow-up" and take responsibility really fast. Might as well start now and just tell them!

My daughter is now 13 - just a couple years younger than you =(.

Sorry....

Best of luck to you dear!

Answer 20

well u have no other choice but telling them or u could tel to ur relatives and let them tel ur family find a very close relative Good luck

Answer 21

Your mess, you fix it.

You're obviously all grown up now...

Answer 22

lol. Sux for you! U totally SCREWED up your life. No body should be pregnant at age 15!!! :[[ U totally put your WHOLE life down the drain!! How are you going to finish High school..or college!! Ur gonna be a poor mom. That baby deserves beettterrr!

   Tell your parents. They can help your HORRIBLLEE mistake.

Better start praying girl....u screwed up!

Answer 23

you just have to, you dont really have a choice

the best way to do it is when their sitting down so if they faint the thump on the ground wont be as painful...

personally, you should have thought about that before you opened your legs silly little girl!!!!

Answer 24

I was 17 when I got pregnant, and my parents HATED the father. I told my mother first, and we sat down and talked about all the options, and I asked her advice about how to go to my dad about it (since she knows him better) and we decided to sit down over dinner at home, and tell him. It really helped to have my mother's support while telling my dad. They were pretty upset by the situation, but all in all, parents are way more acceptable if you're honest and lay out the facts. Hope this helps a bit.

Answer 25

they r gona find out some how just tell them

Answer 26

first be like mom, dad, i know i really messed up. but this is important so please listen. (guys name) and i are having a baby.      after that dont say anything. let them take it in. then when they seem to have gotten past the worst of the anger apologize. and dont say anything like it was an accident, i wasnt thinking, i didnt mean to...etc. just take full responsibility for

Answer 27

March up to them and tell them or let them find out off someone else or your bump

Answer 28

Just come out and say it...theres really no easy way.

Answer 29

Watch Juno.  Then just go say it.  There is no easy way.

Answer 30

The sooner you tell them, the better.

You don't want your parents to hear it from someone else. There really is no easy way, just tell them the truth. They might scream at you, be too shocked to say anything, or faint, or not speak to you for a week.

That's something you'll have to face.



As far as the father is concerned: I hope he won't bail on you, if he does, he's a loser. If he has a backbone, he will be with you when you bring the news to your mum and dad.

Cross my fingers and hope things work out for you.

Answer 31

... ='( why did you have to do it ='(

Well its done now, you are going to have to tell them, its sad that your only 15 and this is happening, and dont get an abortion or do anyting you will regret to this new life that is forming in your body, you will have to take care of it now, anI'mIm sure your family will be there to help you out 24/7 so just go out there RIGHT NOW! AND TELL THEM!!! okay well good luck

~blessings~

-Mac Man fan