Ok I have this horrible stepsister and I need help with her?

Question

Well she has my dad not even speaking to me and now she is messing with me on aim and texting me so what should I do please help me PLEASE!!! I have no clue my dad wont help so what do I do

Any answers are good

Answer 1

try not to give her the reaction you think she wants. acting the way she wants you to will satisfy her

Answer 2

Ok.. Calm down and listen. Literally do not respond. At all.

I know it sounds like a 'typical' response - but if you do not respond and talk back, loading her with more amunition, then what can she do after a while?

Always act cordially towards her. Act completely normal. Even if she does something, dont tell anyone. Your father and everyone else in your house has to start seeing her as the agressor

Answer 3

Slap that Bi+ch and let her know she better stop messing around or you will make her as miserable as she makes you. Hey, you said any answer is good so I had to get my violent side out the way.

Answer 4

Hm. I'm sorry. I haven't been in this situation before but I can give you some good advice:

Tell your dad you need to talk privately. Think about what you are going to say beforehand, and make sure you aren't constantly "bashing" on your step-sister, even if you want to. Save some of the texts she sends you, and show them to your dad, explaining why and how this is hurting you. Tell him you would appreciate his involvement in this, and that you love him. Doing this shows him you're mature and able to handle the situation.

If nothing happens, go to another adult that you trust. Harassment is icky, and she shouldn't get away with it.

If all else fails, simply ignore her. This might be hard at first, but it will get better. Delete the texts without looking at them, etc.

Talking to your dad again is the best bet. Don't give up!

Answer 5

Do not lowe yourself to her level.When she sends you nasty text messages forward them to your Dad's phone for him to read.

Answer 6

anything negative she writes to you save and show your dad.  

in these matters the truth always comes out ,,,,, it may take a while but the truth will be known.