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Ok Ive Been on and off with one for 8 or 9 years and the other one ive been on and off with for 6. I love the one Ive knwn the longest dearly and I know it would kill him if my child wasnt his. I dont know what should I do? Bc I know which one of them would be the better father fiqure Who should I test? Or Should I do it at all?

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  1. Test the one you like the least first, that way if its negative you can go ahead and faze him out completely. Hey, you didn't like him as much anyway. If its positive you will have to just leave the guy you like the most alone, unless he decided to stick around anyway. I mean, you have been dealing with each other for a long time, if he really cares about you he won't let this one mistake dictate your future together. I see it happen all the time. As a matter of fact my friend went through the same thing and not only did the other guy stick around, but he considers the child to be his anyway, and they just had a child together.

    If he doesn't stick around then at least you know that it wasn't meant to be.


  2. I don't know you but I must say - you shouldn't be messing around with two guys like that. I know you probably know that already.. but it just isn't fair. You wouldn't want it done to you!

    You need to get a paternity test as soon as you can. Stick with one guy. Your child needs two parents.

  3. If they are both so great then I would just fess up and have them both tested.

    You never know down the road what is going to happen, what if the baby is sick and needs the dad's history you really cant give both and tell a dr to guess.

  4. hey i was in this situation too i went to www.dnaplus.com and did a prenatal test with just my blood no harm to baby and you can do it forensic with the guys but test both the baby deserves to know its father!

  5. the real father has a right to know...you need the baby tested right after birth...and yes..test both men
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