Ok. Males: I'm gonna talk about something pretty dangerous?

Question

Do ALL guys freak out when a girl says the word "rapist"?

what if she's just explaining to u she doesnt want one of those. what if she's just warning u things shouldnt be like that!

I know my ex or bf whatever he is now, got beyond freaked & angered. what do i do? it's not funny, he hates me now.

Answer 1

Erm, you told him you didn't want him to be one of those?

No bloody wonder he got pissed off.

Not all guys are, but if you're saying things like that, it sounds like you think we all are.

Answer 2

that really was a mistake, you don't tell a guy that you dont want him to be a raist, casue thats basicly calling him a rapist

smeone doesnt say rapist and guys freak out, but we sure dont liek it when were caleld one

Answer 3

A lot depends on the context it is used, OK?

Answer 4

because you could really s***w up someones rep. by saying something like that...

Answer 5

Pretty stupid of you to use that term, don't you think?

I mean ,think about it for just one second:  you're talking to someone you're supposed to have feelings for...someone you should be considerate of...and you throw that word around?

Sounds kind of manipulative to me.  No wonder the guys doesn't like you anymore.

Answer 6

Rapist, where where, whose a rapist, me , him, you, tom, mr. fluff fluff, oh noez *continues running around in a panic*

Answer 7

First of all, if you told him that because he started getting touchy and whatnots then thats perfectly fine because your only protecting yourself. But if you told him that for no reason at all just because you felt like it then it's really mean. I wouldn't want to be compared to a rapist when i haven't even done anything. It's like saying you're guilty when you're innocent haha.  Guys have feelings too you know. What if he were to tell you "i don't want some fat chick" wouldnt you get mad? see so next time think before you mention something. OR maybe you can just slowly get into that 'rapist' topic without having the guy feel like your directing it to him.

Answer 8

yeah don't say that type of **** in front of guys, we absolutely hate it. Makes us look bad.

Answer 9

you ***** you scared the **** out of me,jk idk why he would do that...

Answer 10

well yeah most of us would get pretty upset because you are assuming that we are all capable of rape. if i cared about a girl and she thought i would rape her i would be kinda hurt yeah guys get hurt too

Answer 11

The only thing worse than calling a guy a Rapist,

would be to call him a pedophile.

Even though you might not have intended to call

him a rapist, you were just telling him what you

don't want in a guy.

You have to understand that especially now that the laws

are so one sided when it comes to the situation of a woman

accusing a man of rape or being a rapist, it's no surprise

that guys freak out or want to get away from a woman even

using those words.

All a woman has to do today is call the police on a guy

and say he raped her, even if he didn't he will get arrested

and will have to prove he's innocent.

I'm not saying it's right for any guy to rape or hurt woman,

but there are a number of nut job woman out there

that will accuse a guy of rape to get back at him for

something else.

So yes his reaction was probably normal and expected.

Take care.

Answer 12

doesn't apply to me, but i think they are the worst people on earth next to child molesters