Ok another baby?????????????

Question

ok so me and my boyfriend have a 10 month old son and were getting married and he wants to have another baby... i dont know what to do! i really want another baby but im just confused i don't know why im feeling like this because i DO want another baby.. idk help me why do i feel weird about it

Answer 1

i disagree with aeh whatever it was.

i think people can handle babies at the same time and you can enjoy both together..you dont have to give the first baby any more attention then you already are.

tell him you want to wait til after the wedding then on your honeymoon try and conceive!

(and the people who think its crazy , its because they cant handle too much at one time)

Answer 2

Give yourself some time and have another baby when you're both ready.

Answer 3

yay, my tubes are tied.... i have 3 girls... just wait... sounds like you already have your hands full enough

Answer 4

Well talk to your boyfriend on the way you feel no one can help you unless you talk and say your feelings if you think you guys are not ready for another one let him know and talk to him thats why he there to be with you in evrything is he really loves you he will understand wants bothering you or if you think your not ready so if its just a feeling your getting talk it out with him maybe that will even work and change your mine best luck to both of you let us know how it goes  

Answer 5

I think if I were you I would at least wait until after the wedding just because you want to be able to focus on that.

But, if you really want to have another baby soon, go for it! I'm almost 5 months pregnant right now with my second and my first is only 11.5 months. I've been told by many many more experienced moms that having them close together is a good way to do it. According to these other moms you're going to be crazy busy no matter what the age difference between the two kids, but at least you won't have to deal with all the attitude problems that you would if your oldest was older! And, when they grow up a little bit, they're able to entertain each other which also makes life easier for you.

Whatever you decide though, you have to feel comfortable with it. So talk it over lots with your fiance and make sure you both are confident in your decision, whatever it may be!

Good luck and congrats on your wedding!

Answer 6

I got pregnant again when my son was 10 months old.. Guess what?

Now I'm having TWIN BOYS!

I'd wait because I am going to have not only 2 kids but THREE is diapers.  Enjoy your son and future hubby.  Don't get into a rush because you never know. You could end up with triplets or something.. LOL..

Answer 7

I felt exacly like that its very hard for a mother expecally when you still have a very young one I made sure we wated untill are little one was almost 2 so then by the time I had are second are first was potty traind :) its also very hard if you are the one doing most of the work just tell your hubby that you want to wait untill its the right time for the both of you good luck

Answer 8

Because your son is only ten months old and you're still getting used to having a child; because your body is probably still getting back to normal from the first time around;  because if you are in the middle of planning a wedding, you have a lot of stress on your mind without trying to get pregnant too; because it's a huge decision to have a child, especially when you already have one.  If you feel weird about it, as in, you don't feel like you want to have a second child right now, you have got to express that to your boyfriend and wait until you do feel ready.  I'm guessing you just need a little more time to make adjustments to your new life with child 1, marriage, etc.; give yourselves that time!

Answer 9

If you are not 100% on board. I would wait. Remember, you have a 10mth old son.  It's all well and fine that he wants to have a baby right now.But you are the one who will be caring the baby. There is nothing wrong with waiting. God Bless you in whatever you decide.

Answer 10

wow focus on your wedding first, that should occupy your mind, then talk about another baby, let the wedding be the excuse to wait. also your son will get older and u will be able to handle another baby. enjoy your first child before you add another one in the mix.

Answer 11

I don't know how people have babies back to back like that, but if u feel u are ready, go ahead.  If not, then u might want to let him know that and use birth control.

I want some space between mines personally...