Ok do you think this is stupid or is it ok?

Question

ok.. story..

my friend is now pregnant by her boyfriend.. shes 18 hes 20.. they have been together for 3 months no.. but when she was 16 they were together and she stupidly left him because she was young and dumb. but they loved eachother back then and they do ALOT now lol. they were apart for almost 2 years and the feelings were still there but she was dating someone else... he makes good money they are bothe ready for this. they are going to move out together soon.. i think they will be good parents.. but whats your guys intake on this?? please dont be mean because it wont change anything..

thank you

Answer 1

Sometimes you want to know what else is out there. Happend to me and I recommend it to young girls dating the same guy for years and years.

Married the guy I dated when I was 17 & 18. We got back together at 22 and been happy ever since.

Answer 2

if they truely belive with all their heart that they can financially and emotionally support this child for the next 18 years and take that responsibility knowing that it will be the biggest sacrifice they will EVER make, then i would say they sound like pretty good canidates for a happy future with a baby = )

Answer 3

if they feel that way about each other then thats then

i was with my son's father since i was 14 yrs old. we dated for 3 yrs. until i gotten pregnant

its just like a flash

one day i woke up i didnt want to be with him no more

so i left him

everyone thought i was crazy

leaving the father while being pregnant

i finally saw the ugy he was, he started dating all these girls drinking even drugs.

i didnt want that around my son.

we tried to make it work again

when my son was 1 1/2 yrs old

he felt the same way

but me i didnt, i didnt feel nothing no more

so eventually i told him thats it

but everyone is different

Answer 4

I think they can make it work. I met my husband when I just turned 14 and he was 19. We dated off and on . Some how we always ended up back together. Then when I was 18 we moved in together and the rest is history.This month will be our 4th anniversary and we have a 2 year old daughter and another one on the way. Everyone thought we would divorce after a month b/c they said we were too young. what do they know?Love is Love. Best of luck to them

Answer 5

I am 19, and I think it is foolish to jump into getting married and having children at such a young age.

Answer 6

wow, under those circumstances i will be a wonder if they work out. it will be really hard to get past all of the bs that was most likely caused by the time apart. but that doesn't mean that it wont work. i have a couple of friends that were and still are in almost the same boat, to get over the hurt feelings that were caused they have had to work extra hard to mend things between them and they are doing okay now. maybe  u should suggest that they take parenting classes or go to see a counselor.

Answer 7

Well she's an adult and if you say the love is there, one would hope the common sense is too. There is no reason they can't make this work, the odds are just against them.  I hope they will.  My aunt and uncle never dated anyone else, they were high school sweethearts and married each other at 19.  They have been married for 36 years and are still very much in love. They have 3 kids, have survived many financial harships and their faith and love always held them together. They have a beautiful family and are a testament to honoring your vows and staying together during thick and thin.  Here's hoping your friends, or any of us, will turn out the same way.

Answer 8

I think they have a good chance. They were together when they were younger but separated for 2 years and still got back together is a good sign, the feelings were still there so wish them luck and support your friend no matter what.