Ok. first, i know God knows what he is doing ?

Question

i prayed since i was like eight to fall in love with just one guy... it was the fairytail ending... well 6.5 months... thats how long we dated,,,, only guy i ever felt this way about... i still love him. i meant every word i ever said. God told me to let go... this was 2 weeks ago... i let go, this is the hardest thing i have ever faced, so i`m leaning on God, but i still cry, and satan is doingf everything he can to push me down. i dont wan2 fall again, why does it hurt this bad when God is still carying me

Answer 1

I think you might just have bought into the idea of a fairy tale being real, and finding out it wasn't hurts. While you thought it was true, you were happy. When you found out the real truth that fairy tales aren't real, you became unhappy.

Ironic, isn't it?

Answer 2

I  think some  times we try to hard   life  is all about learning  I am sure  you will meet the right man at some time  maybe  you were just to young.  all breakups  are hard  but better now  then after marriage and children.

Answer 3

You are blessed to know God that well. When the pain subsides, you will still have God. Some people will never know Him. Yet you know Him. Cheer up!

Answer 4

god didn't say  you wouldn't hurt inside. trust in him and don't let Satan  get the best of you. push sin away and ask god to  help you through this hard time in you life. God loves you and will always be there to help you. Remember god has a plan. =)

Answer 5

You are human. You're gonna feel human emotions. It's life. But I commend you for leaning on Jesus. He will bring the right guy to you. This was a learning experience. I will pray that you stay strong. Much love to my sister in Christ.  

Answer 6

how in the heck did he tell you to break up with your boyfriend?

I think you really wanted to do it yourself, don't blame god.

Answer 7

It too shall pass.

Answer 8

Whoa.

This is turning out to be one memorable night for YA.

Doctor, heal thy self.

Answer 9

Sound advice.....

do NOT come to the internet, of all places, to vent some very painful and deep things you are feeling. Yahoo is not going to give good advice, sorry to say. Go read the Bible, take some notes down along with a list of wise scriptures for this situation (only you know it fully) and concentrate on them. Answers will come when you seek them pure heartedly.

Answer 10

Get yourself  a box of kleenex a tub of Ben and Jerry's of icecream and cry till you cant cry anymore.  Then go shopping for shoes..

Heart break hurts but it will get better with time. And Mr.Right is still out there waiting for you.

God Bless  

Answer 11

Your right GOD does know what he is doing.i live by these words.

IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT, HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT.

  

       Happy moments, praise God.

       Difficult moments, seek God.

       Quiet moments, worship God.

       Painful moments, trust God.

       Every moment, thank God.

Answer 12

Dude, I am in the exact same situation!!

I still love my ex, but I do not regret for a moment what I did.

Even though this hurts like h**l, just know that God never gives us what we can't handle. Use this time to learn about His love, and soon, you will find another, great amazing guy that posses this special kind of love within him.

There is no reason why you can't pray for this special guy already <3

Answer 13

Welcome to the real live world of love.

Let go of your illusion of god and accept the fact that no one can determine your future but you.

Answer 14

Because you are doubting Gods word. He has closed a door and he will open a new one. Pray on these things. Be optomistic that something better and more forfillng will come soon. Gods timings is perfect. This will only bring you closer to God.

Answer 15

First; I hope and pray that you "tested the spirit", as the Bible warns, before making these decisions you believe are in obedience to God. That is of the utmost importance. As for the hurt, it does eventually go away. Grief is a process through which we all must go whenever losing someone we love, regardless of the reasons. Grief is essential to our health and well being. Science has shown that tears of grief actually produce poisons that were in your system. Crying gets rid of those poisons. Despair, on the other hand, is not of God and must be fought. The same applies to depression. You need to recognize the difference. You also need to focus on Scriptures that specifically deal with God's promises to carry our burdens. Memorize them and recite them out loud when you believe Satan is attacking you and when the pain starts to feel unbearable. Jesus used Scripture to defeat Satan when He was tempted. How much more important is it for us to do so? When praying, be sure to thank God for carrying your burdens and fulfilling His promises. This helps exercise your faith. Faith is like a muscle, it needs exercise or it will atrophy. I hope that helps, God Bless

Answer 16

What are you talking about?

Did God tell you to dump your bf or did your bf dump you?

Answer 17

Well, honey, if you believe "god" was supposed to find you the fairytale man, and then you thought he did, but he left... then maybe god's not in the picture on this one.  I know it isn't easy, but you have to learn to walk and not lean.  This probably isn't going to be your first heartache, either.  And what "satan" is not trying to push you down.  You're just depressed.  Things will get better.  And next time, make your own fate happen and don't put it in the hands of "god".  Serious advice.  But I do hope you feel better soon. :)

Answer 18

If you did not have enough understanding about what you were doing, then you should not have done it.  d**n, think before you do things and then you will not have such trouble.  Just forget about him, and forget that you ever knew him and talk with your friends and do fun things and stay out of trouble.  It will pass, in a couple of weeks.  But do not dwell on it at all.

Answer 19

Life offers many disappointments. It is these disappointments that make us stronger and teaches us the lessons of life. God allows these things for our overall benefit. God loves you and will give you the strength to go on. Just ask Him for His guidance.   +?+

Answer 20

First of all, there is no God.   Secondly, if there was don't you think he'd have better things to do, like healing the sick, feeding the starving etc., than being involved in your love life?

Answer 21

Uuhhh.... HOW do you know God knows what he is doing?

And you sound "pure" in your text but your nick is HOT STUFF.

Hmmmm....

My take is - Humans will always be humans. And you're a human.

Answer 22

Liste, you have got a problem. Lets leave God out of this. Its not His problem its yours. Believing that God gives up specific direction in life makes us crazy as h**l.

Keep things simple and focus on whats in front of you. Leave angels and demons and other things we cannot see out of this. Dont complicate things further. Keep your problems as simple as you can and try to make to best out of every situation.

Answer 23

just remember that you must put Jesus as number one in your life!

above EVERYONE and EVERYTHING else!

all i know is ...everything...happens for a reason.

Good luck girl....keep praying...keep your faith!

God bless You

with love..."D"