Ok guys,am seeing this man who is 24 years older than i am....?

Question

he said him and his wife has being separated for months.He bought me gifts, take me to fancy restaurants and hotels.I don't know if i believe him when he said they are separated ,but one thing i can see him whenever i want to or call him in the middle of the night and he answer or maybe bcuz he is a business man if he answer his phone the wife wont think much of it .I want to break it of and i don't want to .HELP ME PLEASE B4 IT GETS WORST.

Answer 1

break it off until the divorce is final. remember karma. and your heart is already telling you its wrong. would you like it if your husband was cheating on you?

Answer 2

worster tan you english? i no tink so wize guy

Answer 3

Well, if he is only separated then it still doesn't mean beans unless the divorce is final.

I would just tell him, "Look, I want to date someone who isn't married".

That's it. He will move on, or get his divorce done quicker, but even then people usually date for a while after a divorce, several people for several years before marrying again. DOn't the in-between girl.

So, just see what happens.  

Answer 4

The reason you don't want to break it off is because you like the gifts and all the attention he can afford to give you. I know, all that money makes your head spin.

If he is separated from his wife, then that means they are not living together. So why does he have to take you to a hotel? Why doesn't he take you to his house? From what you have said, it sounds like you know he's not separated from his wife and you are his mistress.

The only one who can help you, is yourself. If you don't want to be a married man's mistress, then you have to break it off.  

Answer 5

Run away until the his divorce is FINAL!

You are worth it!

Answer 6

Move on your just his candie dish!

He eats what he wants and when ever he wants and so your just like a thrown away wrapper!

Your wasting your time and effort toward a man that is lying to you and he is still married and it's not final.

He's not a good man even if you buys you gifts and take you to fancy resturants and hotels.

Who cares drop him like a hat hon!

Answer 7

Then end it. Stop calling him and tell him you will not be talking to him, taking his gifts, and leave him alone.

Answer 8

SMART WOMEN NEVER DATE MARRIED MEN! PERIOD. You need to let this dude go his way till he is free to date other women. Right now, he is 'still' married....regardless of if they live together or not. ANY INVOLVEMENT WITH HIM IS ADULTRIOUS. SORRY. THIS IS THE FACTS LADY. Good luck with common sense.

Answer 9

You could always tell him you are taking a class and too busy to see him.  THEN take an assertiveness class.