Ok i am 13 and i dont have lots of friends and i am also a little heavy all i asking is do u have advise?

Question

thank you :)

Answer 1

Just stay being you and you will find someone who will appreciate you for who you are and not how you look. Don't be shy and stay talking.

Answer 2

First off you have to be confident in who you are. That makes you feel better about you whole entire life. Trust me. But you have to be open to new situations. Maybe have lunch with some of the people in your classes that you haven't really talked to. Be more out there and don't be afraid to be yourself. Because that is the most important thing. Don't ever lose who you are because other people want you to change. If they don't like you the way you are they aren't worth it.

Answer 3

christopher many young teens feel the same way you do right now.  its a hard age to be.

if you are a good and kind person, if you deal fairly with people and are considerate of others, if you are honest and have good morals then don't worry about it at all.  others will begin to appreciate you as they get to know you better.  

my mum always told us - you have to be your own person, stand strong and tall in your beliefs.  you should not change to please someone else, you are the one that looks in the mirror every night and you are the one that has to like the person they see.  

you mentioned you are a little heavy - don't you dare start worrying about that - you are young and before you know it you are going to start to get taller and slimmer.  my brother, and this is true, at 13 was 5'7" and weighed over 200 pounds, by the time he was 14 he was 6'1" and weighed the same.  so you be patient, eat healthy, practise good hygiene and your body will straighten itself out.  

hope this makes you feel better kiddo!  

Answer 4

omg! I'm 13 too!! goodness gracious!! i have lots of friends, i think. lol.

all you need to be is:

confident

smart

happy

kind and do not swear cause that's a total turn off and it's not totally cool

and be fun

and show your fun happy not depressing mad and angry side

and voila! friends there are for you!

Answer 5

Get to know yourself and be confident with yourself.

Try losing weight, if that's what you want to do but that doesn't guarantee you friends.