Ok i asked her Help on wat to tell her

Question

i asked her if she was and she didn't know.

so i told her to take a test. she said her mom had one in her bathroom.

she asked me to come over to be there when she takes it. so she took it and it came out positive. i dont know wat to do she is in her room cryin and she wont come out.

im on my phone (has internet)

im really not good at helping her fell better when she is crying

i need help i feel bad cuz i dont know wat to say

Answer 1

Is it yours?!?

if not - then... no worries - mate!

Answer 2

I'm guessing this is unplanned and both of you are too young to raise a child. You should give her some time alone then both of you should tell your parents. They'll help you make the right decision and will probably help raise the child while you guys finish school. Good luck

Answer 3

she is scared and since she is pregnant with ur baby u need to comfort her go in her room and tell her u are there for her no matter what and that ur scared to but ur help her through it and make sure to keep this promise if u can't keep it don't say it

Answer 4

Just tell her every thing is going to be fine she can get an abortion if she needs to or she can have the baby and keep it or have it and give it up for adoption and if she chooses to keep it will you take responsability for it because you made it happen and she would need help

Answer 5

Be a man and tke control of the situation. go into her room sit next to her, take her hand and assure her that everyhing will be ok.  hold her untill she stops cryin or makes you leave and all the while let her know that you know how big of deal it is ande how you will be together through it.  and agree with what ever she says.  tell a stupid joke it doesn't have to be funny but just something to make her even for one second take her mind off of this.  then just discuss what she wants to do and back her up on it.  

Answer 6

Go in her room and sit with her.

Then take another test to be positive.

it'll be okay, don't worry.  

Answer 7

Go into her room and comfort her! Tell her it will be okay and hug her. Say you are sorry (trust me) and make suggestions. Consider abortion telling both your parents and jsut keep telling her she is okay and that you are okay too (even if you are not). Go and tell her parents with her.  

Answer 8

u gotta go spend time with her. u gotta hug her and stuff telling her its gonna be ok. that ur gonna be there for her and support her choices. that both of u are gonna make it through this. make her feel relaxed and comforted. just be there for her and listen to what she has to say.