Ok i was about to have s*x with my brother in law was this wrongg?

Question

OK so yeah when i was 13 i started flirting with my neighbor and talking to him only by phone. Ok so one day we decided to met and just 2 minutes after we met we were kissing and then i ditch school with him and had s*x.. later that week i started talking to his brother and his brother told me i was attractive and he wanted to have s*x. I guess i like how it felt that i told him ok. and he was going to come to my house. I called him early that day and told him to forget about it because my mom was home.. and now im 19 and merried to his brother (the first one) and i feel horrible. Was that wrong?

Answer 1

having s*x at 13 with 1 lad is bad enough, and then 2 minutes later wanting to have a bash with his brother..do you really need to ask if that is wrong? be serious! you are married now and still have not told him? get it out in the open it is bad that neither of you have told him yeah..i rekon its a good job your mom was home that day. but everybodys entitled to their opinion  

Answer 2

It took him 2 minutes to start plowing the field.  I don't think he will be surprised that there were other farmers.

Answer 3

Nah, that was a long time ago. But word to the wise, if someone asks you to have s*x, generally don't say yes right away. I mean, it's kind of tacky to mention s*x like that.  

Answer 4

I'm lost  but I will take a shot at it.  You married the guy that you ditched school for at 13...got married, but always had a crush on his brother??  Well hun you are 19 which for starters is WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY too young to get married.  You have women in there 30's that's not ready let alone a teen.  Anywho, if I were you, I would get a divorce, go away to school, and start my life completely over.  You are too young to deal with these responsibities.  Are you wrong for being attracted "s*xually to another guy, NO, you are wrong to be married at 19!!  Where is your mother?  or Father, I mean come on, the guidance is awful. Get s*x off your mind and replace it with your future, and goals. You are young and have endless opportunities to become all the woman you are destined to be.

Answer 5

Your story is beyond credibility.

Answer 6

You will no doubt, become a piller of our society. If you don't know if it was wrong or not, you have a problem.

Answer 7

Nothing is wrong, when your young you should have fun, now that your married it would be the wrong thing to do, but I am sure that you know that.

Heck you only banged on of them so really nothing is wrong there I suppose. Now if he is still wanting to hook up with you, there is a problem with him.

Answer 8

Six years have passed and now you are wondering if it was wrong?

You should have felf horrible six years ago.  I really hope you get yourself together.

You should have went to school that day because you missed an English class.  

Answer 9

LMAO.  I agree with the others who have answered.  My first reaction was WHAT?????  Just because some one thinks your attractive doesnt mean you have to sleep with them?  What are you thinking?  Where were your parents?  You are a serious ho bag who no doubt will be on your front yard screaming for your five children all from different daddies to "git your *** over here" one day.

Answer 10

You really are a grade A slaaag arent you.

Answer 11

I have to wonder why you are questioning your behavior now, after you have married one of the brothers?  The experience was six years ago in the past and should remain in the past.  

Chances are the brothers talked about you many years ago while you were 13 and they were both looking for s*x.  The fact that you didn't meet the other brother is the "end" of that issue.

Move on with your life sweetheart, be a great wife and be happy.

You've matured, learned your accountable for your own behavior, that's a good quality.  We all experience life lessons and hopefully grow from them.  When we allow past issues to weigh us down, heavy on our shoulders, it makes it difficult to move forward.  Forgive yourself and be grateful for each new beautiful day ahead of you.

Peace Be Still

Answer 12

get some self respect and learn how to write

Answer 13

You need to learn how to respect yourself and your loved ones.

Answer 14

Get a life.

Answer 15

Like Oh my God, it was so totally wrong that you skipped school to have s*x at 13, then it was totally wrong to think about having s*x with his brother in the same week...now you married the one you had s*x with and your 19. Whew, I am so glad I am an adult!!  I wish you could be one too.  

Answer 16

At 13 you were having s*x..... This is the reason mothers should be speaking with their daughters from a very young age.

Answer 17

it was a long time ago. be honest with your husband. get off your chest and move on. it's life.  

Answer 18

At 13, it didn't seem like it took much to get you into bed. It was wrong for you to sleep with anyone at that age. But, since you are married to the first brother, it doesn't really matter if it was wrong or not. Please, don't cheat on your husband with his brother.  Jerry Springer does enough shows like this.

Answer 19

LMAO!!!

Answer 20

LMAO

I wouldn't even know where to begin....

I also would'nt waste my time because you would not listen anyways.

Answer 21

well, you're kind of a ho for having s*x at 13, but you didn't actually do it with the brother, so no.  i guess.

Answer 22

big oops no cause first you never knew you where gonna marry the guy and second it was a while ago.yeah it was kinda wrong since there family members but hey it wasn't like you really knew.lmao

Answer 23

Well, from your paragraph, it looks as though 'having s*x' is all you are capable of, so either get your GED or go for the brother- in- law.

Answer 24

if you have to second guess or questions yourself you shouldnt be doing it