Ok is this normal for a 14 yearold guy? 10 points?

Question

My moms getting pissy with me because i don't like spending time with her outside the house

when im inside the house i shut my door to my room all the time

its not like i love her... i do

my mums divorced from my dad and she has to take care of me and my granny

she says that i only use her for her money which isn't true... i need it for certain things like the movies but its not like im some spoilled little brat who just uses his mom for money No im not like that

i used too play games and go every where with her... now i hardly do at all... but when i do we have a great time

and the more and more she wants to cling to me the more i wanna pull away

is that normal?

thanks guys 10 points

Answer 1

it is normal

becuz shes a single parent, ur the only male figure and son she has so she wants to cling and pamper u and be with u as much as she can

just tell her that she needs to relax a little

and make a schedule

for example: out of 7 days a week, spend like 2 with her and 5 with ur friends and go out

i think this way she's happy and ur happy too

gluck

Answer 2

Yes, i think shes just realizing your growing up

which can be tough on someone,

considering your her only child...

just try to talk to her

make her realize that you need some time to yourself...

in a nice way.

also, dont forget her.

TRY to balance your alone time

with your family time

Answer 3

Its normal for most boys. Its because your getting older, and wanna do stuff by yourself, so of course its normal. Dont worry about it :D and for another choice, you could even talk to her about it!

Answer 4

That is completley normal. Usually the parent is asking questions though, not the kid. So anyways, think of something she would enjoy doing with you. Maybe a family night out(go bowling or you can suggest somwthing like playing pool). Just once a week go and do something with her(it doesn't even need to take that long either) so she'll be satisfied. You'll probably find that it's cool. You'll like seeing the smile on here face. Trust me, stay together with your family. It's the only thing you have in the end.

Answer 5

i think its totally normal

Just talk to your mom cuz when she is not around anymore your gonna regret not sepending time with her.

Answer 6

its totally normal!

its just your growing up and you dont really wanna hang out with your mom, and your a guy and shes a women so you cant really talk to her about all your guy stuff or it would probably be awkard.  

Answer 7

yeah that's normal. most guys don't wanna be super close to their moms. but for her to really see how much you love her, (with the help of some family) reserve a trip for her or something. idk what kinds of stuff she likes but it shouldn't be too hard

Answer 8

im  a 14 year old girl and im the same way i love my parents but i love spending time with friends and texting and the computer i think my parents think the same thing so i guess it would be normalll