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Ok lets say someone was raped and molested as a child...?

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and they never told anyone, and someone asked if that person was a virgin, and the person said that they were

is that bad?

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  1. no cus it was not with concent.


  2. Wow, it's like you specifically asked me.

    I was raped and molested as a child, and when asked tell people that I am a virgin.

    I honestly believe that I am being truthful when I say that I'm a virgin. No, scientifically I'm not a virgin. But I never willingly had s*x, or even put myself in the situation to have s*x.

    Once you get to the point where s*x is an actual issue, and concern, then you can be more honest with the person. Let them know about what happened to you, not because you're technically not a virgin, but because s*x will probably more of a issue for you than it would other people.

  3. no.

    i would do that!

  4. the person didn't consent to unwanted s*x---so in there eyes they are still a virgin,HOWEVER biologically for a girl or boy, experts and do gooders in the Field will say there not a virgin because they have had inter-coarse, its a touchy subject.

  5. No because I would still view them as a virgin as they haven't consensually had s*x. I know its not exactly correct but that is how I would take it.

    Having your virginity stolen from you in an extremely disturbing way is not the same as two people in love having consensual s*x.

  6. no i always do that

    but i feel guilty sometimes for not exactly telling the truth

    but i do it to avoid aw quid questions

    and its none of there business if i am or not anyway

    its only one guy that i feel guilty about "lying" to but thats cuz hes my friend and i really like him

  7. no.  

  8. Well it is a lie, so depending on one's morals it may or may not be wrong. If it is a partner asking the question it is best to be honest, unless it is a fairly new relationship.

  9. no but later on they should tell them

  10. It depends on who you ask there many ways to answer this question. Technically no he/she is not a virgin. BUT personally I think this person is a virgin because this person never had sexual contact b/c he/she wanted it. It was because some one took advantage of him/her, and that is not their fault.

  11. it is up to you who you share that knowledge with. if i were you, i would tell them i were virgin.  

  12. It is a hard position to be in as i have been there. When i was asked I would say that I was a virgin. You did not consent so technically you have not had s*x. If at a later stage you feel able to trust the peron enough to tell them then by all means do. Have you considered council-ling? x

  13. It's not bad because I don't think that most people would want to tell everyone that. I mean I think that if someone was raped/molested, they don't really lose their virginity because it somehow is different. I don't know how to explain it, but I think that it would be an acceptable answer.
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