Ok need mature advice only!!!?

Question

Im pretty sure im moving to a 3rd world country AGAIN and i dont think ill be leaving there anytime soon

im worried about being intimate with anone now because of my hanging labia, and i was planning to have surgery, but now, well i dont think ill be having suregery over there, i dont trust the doctors, the fact that they mutate womens vagainas to be a tight fit for their husbands as a custom is a thing to put anyone off!

So the closest country i would go to is england, but then the airfares thousands, and the surgerys thousands....

so sould i get it done before i go? im pretty sure im too young, but i dont think im going to have the oppertuinity until 10 years from now!!!!

please just answer the question, i am not lookng for 'accepting yourself' sh it so please

Answer 1

HI,

I'm not sure if I'd get it done at all.  Lets face it, men are happy to get any **ssy. (pardon the word but it's late and I"m getting weary.) If this is a legit question, I really don't know if I'd get it done.  Apparently it's bothering YOU sweetie and that's what matters. If you feel the right thing to do is have it surgically corrected, then I certainly wouldn't do it in a third world country.  We have the best doctors here in the United States.  What does your gynocologist think? Do you trust his judgment?  I would get maybe three opinions before making a decision.  Does embarass you IE...to the extent that you wont have s*x or allow anyone to get to know you physically enough to give you orgasms?  If so then it is indeed a big enough problem for you to seek the help of a professional to help you make the best decision.  I'd have it done too if I was unable to show and allow a man to sexually please me.  Good luck sweetie this is a tough one...

Take Care,

Eileen

Answer 2

welll how old r u ?

Answer 3

yikes

well

i say, its your body, do what you want to do

but most importantly do what feels right for you =]

but i say go for it b4 you leave if you don't trust the doc's there

Answer 4

I wouldn't get ti done at ALL, but if you're going to get it done, get it done somewhere you feel safe and comfortable. Seriously though, it's a POINTLESS surgery. Men don't care about a hanging labia. Some are even turned on by it.

Answer 5

i know what you mean sister. i can't even wear skirts because i trip over my hanging labia.

Answer 6

and how hangy are we talking here?

Something you were born with?

Or something that just happened to you over the course of your life?

Just wondering.  I guess it does depend on how old you are.