Ok should I wait until 6 mos to move in with my boyfriend?

Question

we been dating for 3 we have a excellent relationship....we do argue but its over petty stuff...we each have 1 son from our exes. he is going to the navy in may and wants to get married next yr if everything goes well....should i give it

Answer 1

slow down girl

Answer 2

no take it one day at a time

Answer 3

Wait on till he marries you. Next year isn't too far, with time you'll both get to know each other better. You think 3months is enough to detect what kind of person he is? I used to say that too but now i know better.

Give yourself time my dear.

Answer 4

Every relationship is different.

I was in a 5 year relationship and never moved in with my BF

My husband and I were together 6 months and moved in together...it worked out well for us!

Answer 5

I recommend waiting until you are married.  There's no need to rush things.  If your relationship is strong and meant to be you'll still be together when it's time to marry.  Personally, I wouldn't move in so quickly on the hope that it will work... especially not with kids in the picture.

Answer 6

NNNOOOOOO - i moved in with my EX husaband after knowing him 3 months, people change during the first year, even after 6 months... as the butterflies wear off and comfort sets in.. wait!! i moved in with my ex after 3 months, and 6 years later, i find out he's a cheater, pathological liar and was abusive... and i put up with it, cause we were married... and, you have to give your kids time.. time to get to know the other, trust the other, and like the other enough to want to be a family with this person..

the man i am dating now has 2 kids.. we've been together over a year.. the kids know and love me, but they dont live with me.. the nights he has them, we go to his parents house and eat there, then i go home, they all stay overnight there... even after 2 years of their parents being apart and 1 year knowing me, they dont understand why mommy and daddy still cant be together... give it time!!

Answer 7

slow down

Answer 8

No. You said it yourself. You each have children from your exes. Just concentrate on raising your own children. No sense in having another child with another man only to have it end quickly. Get to know each other.  

Answer 9

err yes but 3 months is a bit short to know the man