Ok so i have this friend her name's Samantha (continued on details)?

Question

and she like doesn't wear deodorant and she has really bad B.O. and i don't wanna tell her like you stink get deodorant so i don't know how to like say "You stink and have really bad B.O. And i don't think you wear deodorant!!!! Its disgusting!" in a nice way.

Answer 1

Ok i have had this problem before with one of my friends.

1) tell her she kinnda stinks sometimes (honesty is better)

2) write a note to her

3)buy her deo and tell her it smells really good

Answer 2

Well, since you are her friend, you shouldn't let her go around smelling all day!

Maybe you should pull her aside and say something like, "Hey I don't want to embarrass you or anything, but sometimes you tend to sweat and sometimes there's a bad odor... Maybe you should try a better deoderant! I'm sorry I had to tell you this, but you'd rather hear if from a friend than anyone else right? I'd want someone to tell me!"

Just be very polite and I'm sure she'll actually be thankful that you care enough about her to let her know about this.

And she'd probably offer you the same courtesy!

Good luck with this!

Answer 3

just be like b4 PE put on ur deodorant and be like ooh doesnt mine smell goooood lemme smell urs

and shell probably be like  oh i 4got it sry and just be like bring it

Answer 4

Alright, when she's over at your house sometime and you guys are hanging out- go to the bathroom to 'fix your hair' or whatever and then show her some of your deodorant and be like "My skin is like super sensitive and this deodorant gave me a rash when I tested it out on myself, I don't want it to like go to waste or anything so do you want it?" LOL. That's what I'd do at least, just give like subtle hints... that way it won't be as rude or whatever and it shouldn't hurt her feelings. Either that or be like "OMG, I tried the best deodorant ever- it makes me smell like soooo good!" and then basically recommend that she buy some too. Good luck~ This is a toughie hey?! As ya don't want to hurt her feelings but you want her to know the truth kinda thing. If all else fails when it's her birthday or christmas you could buy her like a really good smelling perfume or one of those body wash kits that come with like deodorant and stuff. Another way would to be like "Wow, it smells like someone doesn't wear deodorant..." when it's only like you two hanging out, she HAS to get that hint- I'd use that hint as a last resort though because that may come across a bit obvious, ha ha! Hope I've helped xx

Answer 5

I had the same problem!!! This girl on my soccer team I don't even think took showers and it smelled really bad! And so I just came right out and said it. But in your case if u want her to feel comfortable when you say it I would just say "hey can we talk"... sit her down and say "you know you really gotta start wearing deodorant and you may not know it but you have B.O....I hate to be the one to inform you but you might wanna consider buying some deodorant . Please don't take this the wrong way I just don't want you to be embarrassed." Hope this helps!!