Ok so i moved...i miss my friends but i can...?

Question

ok so i moved acorss the country few months before school ended last year. i was in 8th grade and so now i am going to be in high school. i miss and love my friends so much. they were the best and omg i miss them!!!! my dad still lives there but my mom doesn't. i could go live with my dad so i can go to that high shcool with my friends but i would miss my mom and bro and sis.... i hate my new school they are realyl racist and have made no friends. but if i move back i dk if would miss my mom bro and sis to much. i cant go back and forth cuz its high school.

so what do i do????????

Answer 1

high school, 4 years of your life.

if you think you will improve in your new school and make new friends, stay.

but if you think you won't make any good friends over the 4 years in high school, move with your dad to go back to your old friends

whichever you choose, you can visit your mom or dad between summer, winter break, spring break etc.

hopes this help  

Answer 2

I don't know why your mom moved, maybe it was job related. That's not the issue here tho.

If your dad & mom agree to let you live with him go back there. You're already established. If they don't then make the best of the situation you're in. I know in high school how important friends are. Just be yourself and the racist hopefully will eventually come around. Have you ever seen the movie Remember the Titans? It was a true story.

Have your friends send you pictures and put them on your note books. Do the best you can with your academics. You sound like a very bright student. Are your siblings younger or older than you? Sounds like you all are very close. Ultimately the decision will be yours. If you go to dad at least you can call every night to talk to your siblings and mom, send e-mails and stuff. Where ever you stay, you can go to the other parents during school vacations. Will the old school let you visit if the vacation times aren't the same? I know where I live the three areas all have vacation at different times. My daughter used to go to classes with her old friends. Guess it's almost like getting two educations!!! lol

Well what ever you decide I hope it works out for you. Talk to your parents and see if they can help you out with it. Good luck~

Answer 3

All you can do is promise to select the right man and don't do what your mom did: she divorce your father and got you as far away as possible from him but what she doesn't know is that she is not only hurting your father she is hurting you.

Look beyond where to go to school see the big picture. Your mom chose to be happy above you. Some day you will be a mom so choose well so you will never get divorce and if you divorce stay close to your ex husband so your kids can enjoy their father.  

Answer 4

I suggest that if you love your friends that much that it would be better (for your education at least) to go back to your old school and when it's over maybe your mom will let you move back.

If your hating your new school it will be much harder for you to get an education anyway so i suggest that you go back. At least for a little while.

Hope this helps!

-CS

Answer 5

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