Ok so my little 12 year old sister said you're a pus** to me so i..?

Question

told my mom and what did she say? she said "oh shes so silly" i CAN NOT believe this. she would have never in a million years have allowed me to say this word. she was always soooo strict about our language. she wouldnt even let us say f**t. shes been letting my sister get away with so much stuff like dressing S****y too. why is this? does she just want my sister to turn out bad?

Answer 1

Believe me, your mom WILL pay for this.

I am 43 and I have a brother 41. We have a younger brother who's 22.  

Our parents were really strict with us and we turned out ok.

When the little brother come along, my parents are more like grandparents to him.

Hand him everything he wants, let him get into there stuff and tear it up, he lied about everything and they believe him, and on and on and on.

Well, he quit school, got into drugs, won't work, been in jail many times, has a baby he won't support, steals from his elderly parents who have bad health problems, and on and on.

Just yesterday my dad (His dad too) told me they aer going to leave the house and everything to him when they die!!

WTF!!  There's not a thing we can do about it.

BUT, my parents are paying and will always pay for allowing him to be so bad. They are in turmoil but they are STILL allowing him to be bad.

I just don't know why. I am SO GLAD they were not this way to me.

Your mom is in for a rude awakening.

You see this as not fair now, but when you are an adult you will be GLAD your parents didn't treat you this way.

Answer 2

I'm sorry sweety... WE, the oldest kids always get the worst part... parents tend to over-do when it comes to their first kids... because they want 'em to be flawless. The most displined, the most intelligent, the most obedient, the most educated, etc... as the have more kids the gain experience & learn the sometimes being super strict is actually bad ... (idk about ur mom letting ur sister dress "S****y" ... or who knows what S****y is to you....).Don't hate on ur sister cuz she's being treated better than u were... be happy for her... and remember this when u have ur own kids. Be a role model. :)

Answer 3

oh my lord i know exactly how you feel and im an adult i was 17 and ready to get married and i was not allowed outside past nine oclock but my now 16 year old brother can stay out ALL night with no adult supervision it makes my blood boil! I have no idea why they get like this

Answer 4

Parents get tired of fighting their kids as they get older.

Answer 5

wow hard to say....did u tell ur mom how that wasent fair

Answer 6

she probably is getting older and she sees that being so strict isnt nessasary!

Answer 7

Your mom is probaly experimenting. To see which child makes more money or something.

Answer 8

Does she know  what that means.  Because my 11 year old brother said that word and I'm pretty sure he only knew what it meant when you call someone that, not it's literal meaning or that it was a bad word.  I don't understand why your mom did that though.

Answer 9

maybe its because youre mom thinks that she's too young and that maybe she's just making fun of words... i find my parents strict too, specially my mom...

Answer 10

she probobly does not care anymore

as ppl get older they think y bother

Answer 11

I know, it sucks being the oldest. Its like they are testing their parenting skills on us, and their spoiling skills on them. AAAGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!