Ok so their is this korean guy i like at school and idk if he likes black girls?

Question

yea im not tryin to start a relationship or anything he just seems like a cool person. anyway, he tall, quiet and sits by himself at a table with the least amount of people andsometimes he just looks mean lol. anyway, when my friend and i talked to him he just said a few words and what not. and yea i saw him he wass hott but i was scared to talk to him cause he might not associate or like black girls... since i mostly see alota asian guys with white girls. and sometimes i think he ignores my friend and i when we say hi..

what do you guys think?

Answer 1

That depends, is he Korean like actually from Korea, or a Korean-American? If he's American you might have a better chance. If he's actually from Korea, that could be tough.

Koreans are extremely racist, even against other Asians. As far as seeing them with white girls, that's a status thing. Lots of Asian guys like to whine (sort of tongue in cheek, but serious at the same time) about other races "taking their women" and then how they can't land white girls.... so any Asian guy that actually gets one it's like having a trophy girlfriend/wife. I can't imagine it'd be too different from how blacks could view their guys getting with white girls.

Now of course this is America and times are changing it's not rare to have the races mixing, so give it a shot anyway. You're just trying to be his friend so I don't see why you can't try to get to know him, but if he's ignoring you when you try to talk to him, you should take it as a hint.... You might be better off finding a nice Asian guy who isn't too fresh off the boat.

Answer 2

This guy might not be worth it...he's probably racist. Don't take this personally, but some Asians think highly of themselves and other lighter-skinned people. This is due to the fact that they are raised that lighter skin symbolizes youth, vitality and health whereas darker skin tones represent poverty (due to constant exposure to sun) and aging. But don't worry! Now that many Asians are raised the Western way, we view darker skin as hot.

Answer 3

awh, just talk to him.

race shouldn't matter.

<3

Answer 4

Other than a racist who wouldn't like a black girl? I've dated many black girls.... one way to find out girl...ask him out.

Answer 5

Lol, everybody says I look mean. It's only because I am really shy. I think you should just go and talk to him and he will open up =]. (That's how I am)...

You should say "hey, I see you around all the time, what are you up to?"...

Race doesn't matter.

Answer 6

I'm black and I ask Asian guys out all the time.  My last two boyfriends were from Korea.  

If you try to make friends with him or even ask him out, the worst that could happen is that he just says no.  The best thing that could happen is that he says yes and is really excited that a girl finally asked HIM out for once.  This could be a win win situation.  

If you like Asian guys or just want get some insight about Asian male/ Non-Asian female relationships, you should visit Aznlover.com  It's not really a dating site, but it's a good place  to see how other people handle dating and Asian men.  It's got a lot of other interesting stuff too.

Answer 7

make him like black girls!

Answer 8

He sounds really shy. He might just be uncomfortable around people. Maybe when he sits by himself or with just a few people, go over and sit with him. Tell him you'd like to be friends and start  a conversation. It might be hard at first, especially if he doesn't say much back,but give it time. He'll probably come around.

I'm really shy. And I don't usually talk much to people unless they talk to me first. Even then I have to get to know them pretty well.

Answer 9

Just keep being friendly, he might come around eventually.

Answer 10

I don't think you should judge this guy based on all the other asian guys you see with white girls.  Everyone is different especially when they're young...Don't classify the majority as everyones preference because you'll end up disapointed for judging people you didn't get the chance to know b/c you thought you already had them figured out..just talk to this guy...maybe he's shy and doesnt just open up to people right away.

Answer 11

best thing you can do is talk to him.

Answer 12

Talk to him. I know lots of asian guys who have a crush on black girls but they are too shy to make the first move.