Ok so what places do I go where I wont find players if pubs and club are full of them? ?

Question

Even the guys I choose off match.com have been players!

Answer 1

first of off I dont recommend meeting guys in, clubs, bars, or over the internet... thats the biggest no no trust me my sister made the biggest mistake doing that.

Try going into a club(hobbies n stuff) or volunteer work you may meet someone there. Also to take a risk but might have a good outcome, do the old fasion, strike up a convo with a stranger. Thats if his girl aint there. Another is go to a friends party... without all the alcohol you know.

Answer 2

A couple answerers have suggested just doing things that you like and you will find someone there.  This is good advice.

Single female friends of mine ask me this question a lot and I always tell them the same thing.  Go where the MEN go.  Players go to bars and clubs, MEN don't.  There are numerous places to try, but here are a few to get you started:

1.  Community sports.  Lots of young, athletic men play softball or soccer for a community, church, or work team.  Find out where the games are, bring a cooler of Gatorade and watch.  Maybe your company or church has a team that you can follow.  Some teams are co-ed (hint, hint)

2.  Home Depot or Lowe's.  This is a veritable meat market of manliness.  Hard-working, sensible, do-it-yourselfers who are good with their hands.  What more could you want?  Go there to buy your lightbulbs and kitchen linens.

3.  Shopping.  Yes, men shop too, but you won't find us in Talbot's.  Go to Men's Wearhouse to "pick out a gift for your brother", find a guy who looks right for you and ask his opinion about something.  You could do the same at Best Buy, Staples, or any sporting goods store.

4.  Golf courses.  If you don't play, sign up for a class.  The ratio is probably 10-1 male to female.

5.  Gym.  Don't go to Curves or a "health spa", those are for women.  Try Gold's Gym or something similar.  Again sign up for a class for something.  The ratio here might be more like 5-1.

Please understand that I'm not suggesting that you stop being feminine.  On the contrary, men love feminine women, but we are also turned on by women who like "guy things".  You might discover that you like some of these things too.

Good luck!

Answer 3

you need to find urself a nice, quiet, NERD...  they will be sooo good to you, I can't even tell you.

Answer 4

Dont choose men off the net, they're usually desperate. And probably really c**p in bed if they have to beg for it off random strangers.

Through friends is the best place to meet a good man. Or in college or work.

Answer 5

Spend your time doing the things you enjoy.  Take up a hobby you've always wanted to try or become a volunteer for your favorite cause, etc.  By becoming involved in something you enjoy, you will be more likely to meet people who are of like mind.  Don't go into it expecting to meet someone, but know that you'll be more likely to meet someone who is your "type" while involved in the things you enjoy doing.

Answer 6

Well, through friends is a good place to start, since they will warn you about the guys (if are true friends). At the park, etc. If you're religious, through Church, and places like that.

Answer 7

There are players everywhere you go. Try meeting someone at church, or through your friends.