Ok so why did our "parents" and society push us to work hard, etc, when so many party/live it up,celebs?etc?

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I mean especially Hollywood people, even other states away from CA, nashvilleTN, all around the world, people are treating life like it's one big party, living it up, everything is just so great for them, they hold events, the actors make movies, go to festivals, it's all so amazing yet,

for the "average" person, what you hear is "you B ETTER go to college, you BETTER work, you b etter do this , you better do that,"

like you're a f8cking slave, and like this other great lifestyle is for people who are better than you, or h**l, who even KNOWS how they do it, all I know is,

no one ever told THEM to really work hard, do this do that, they made their own paths in life, and made it work for them.

So why are we being lied to in a sense, and being TOLD what to do with our lives, and how to live?

WHy were we raised like that?

Answer 1

" mean especially Hollywood people, even other states away from CA, nashvilleTN, all around the world, people are treating life like it's one big party, living it up, everything is just so great for them, they hold events, the actors make movies, go to festivals, it's all so amazing yet,"

Umm...celebrities (actors/actresses, singers, etc.) had to work to get to that point.  They had to practice, learn lines, learn dance routines, go on tour, etc.  It's not like, "Okay, you're pretty, here's a check".

"for the "average" person, what you hear is "you B ETTER go to college, you BETTER work, you b etter do this , you better do that,""

Because the average person's parents want them to do something stable, and they're afraid that, if their child decides to do something along the lines of entertainment, that the child will be rejected and hurt.  This is why a lot of parents want their kids to be doctors, lawyers, etc. as opposed to writers or singers.

"I mean really, so much of life is total b8llshit for many people. drugs, s*x, partying, fashion, etc, and these people aren't exactly good people, or godly or deserving of ANY of it, yet they have it hoard it, and like...treat the general public like ****."

I didn't realize that you had to be deserving or godly to get drugs or s*x.  And who says that you have to be GOOD to get these things?  You have to be good at your career, but that's it!  What, niceness brings in money?

"What about the people who STAR in these movies, and do the world tours like Madonna, and the cast/crew etc??"

Again, that's what they WANTED to do.  Who's stopping you from doing this?  No one, except yourself.

"no one ever told THEM to really work hard, do this do that, they made their own paths in life, and made it work for them."

You answered your own question.  If you want a fabulous life where you're traveling, meeting famous people and entertaining millions, go into the entertainment industry.  If you want the stability of a 9-5, do that.  A 9-5 can be very rewarding and exciting if it's in an industry that you care about.

You seem a bit bitter; maybe you're not happy in your life right now.  Like I said, find a more exciting career and just go with it.  The time you spend being bitter could be better spent bettering yourself.

Answer 2

Thats usually what happens when you come from a wealthy family.The kids get everything handed to them.Usually a celebrity life runs in the family so the kids continue to that lifestyle.

Answer 3

i live it up