Ok soo...uhmm i kinda wanna be a mommie?

Question

i kinda wanna have a baby.

i want to be a mommy

but im 14.

iunno why but ive always had an infatuation with mothers and ther kids. like. i see um and i smile and then i get sad cus i dont haf a baby. i love to baby sit and hold other people babies.

and UGH

i wanna be a mommie and im 14 what do i do?

Answer 1

at your age lots of girls have that urge to be a mom, trust me it will go away.

babies are not all about smiles and laughter there is ALOT of crying and whining involved to that I'm sure you don't see.

go to school get a good job, travel, do all the things you want to do then think about kids. because your life will be on hold for a long time if you have kids to early

Answer 2

its not all love and smiles..

when you first have the baby for the first year your very depressed and nothing can cheer you up.

The baby is ALWAYS crying

They are expensive

trust me you DONT want to have a baby at 14.

Been their...

Answer 3

Grow up, thats what you do.  Get your head out of your head out of your @ss!

Answer 4

This sounds like a want to have a baby because they are so cute. I'd say wait. You need to have a stable environment. Your life would change so much once a baby comes in the picture. Ever think about finishing school, how you would support the baby financialy, how you wouldn't be able to join your friends for a simple night out without taking a baby along with you. A baby isn't just a toy. It's a living, breathing, whinning, crying, pooping life that you would be completely responsible for the next 18 years of your life. From the time you conceive a baby to the point he/she is 18, that kid is your total responsibility, and your stuck with it. Being pregnant isn't all fun and games either. You can have morning sickness that doesn't just last in the morning, it can go all day, every day, for the entire 9 months. Your hormones are ridiculous, and the cost of a pregnancy can also get ridiculous. And then there's prenatal vitamins, and keeping yourself healthy, no partying and sometimes your so tired and in pain that you really don't want to do anything at all. It can put so much stress onto one persons life.

I really hope you change your mind, and really, truley think about what life would really be like with a kid in the picture.

Answer 5

Buy a baby doll.  

Answer 6

get nocked up!

Answer 7

I'm 14 and i wanna be a mommy. i know I'm too young so i take care of baby dolls..i know its a little weird  

Answer 8

Get a pet, That way you can grow up some more and get resposible enough to take care of something small and vulnerable.

Answer 9

lols the feeling is mutual. im 16.

hun, think about your future and how it could possibly ruin it. think about how disappointed your parents might be. think about how you aren't ready

the diapers, the feeding, the crying and you don't know whats wrong.. its a head ache. it takes patience and dedication.

you aren't able to buy anything for it on your own..

think of all the negative lol. get it out of your head.

no offense, but think of a baby as a really bad STD. idk what else to say. I love them though.

get a puppy.. or kitten.

think about how much of your childhood would be gone.. well teenage hood.

Finish school first and make sure you have money saved up before you have one of those things..

lol.

=/

Answer 10

Wait until your older.  Motherhood is a huge responsibility.

Answer 11

wait until you're old enough. if you really want to give a child the best life u could provide them with, make sure you're ready to take on the responsibilty. beleieve me, babies are more than smiles and giggles. they're also midnight sob sessions, over-eaters, and p**p more than u think. you're only 14, maybe what u long for is to care for and love people. try surrounding yourself with people u love (ie family members), give more hugs, say "i love you" and mean it. smile more and enjoy the fact that you're alive. be a help to your mom and take on more chores willingly just because you know it will make her happy. as for the baby thing, you should really wait. u wont regret ur desicion to wait, and neither will ur future son or daughter.

Answer 12

wait until your older

Answer 13

Become an AuPair or a babysitter. Trust me, you don't want babies. It is waaay to much reponsibility emotionally, physically and financially. Go work at Chuck E Cheese, I used to be a manager there. That is the best birth control known to man, after you deal with the kids that go there youwon't look at kids the same way again.

Answer 14

You and I have the opposite issue. Both are wrong though. You should enjoy childhood while it is still there and get an education and what not. You have the rest of your life to be a mom.

Me? I'm still young (almost 17) and I am considering getting my tubes tied. Kids are fine... I guess I just don't have the patience for them.

Listen, its cool you want to be a mom, (Moms are awesome! Especially my mom!) but leave it to the 20-40 year olds. That is their time. Right now, it is just best for you and I to get an education and training to get a proper job to actually take care of a baby. Its hard work!

Good luck with things and ALWAYS use protection!

Answer 15

dont have a kid.

unless you want to ruin 2 lives.

Answer 16

get your education before your child.

At 14 to be a parent would condemn you and your child/ren to poverty and have no way out of the places.

other then a mom what do you wont from your life?  

Answer 17

ok but can you do it at 14 come on girl! seriously wait until you are married at 20-25!  

Answer 18

Finish School. That should be your only priority and if you love kids that much then get a babysitting job. You cannot emotionally or financially take care of a child right now.  

Answer 19

i soo understand.

i want to be a mom so much. im a only child.

just do a program that you take care of a fake baby.

i forgot what soem are called.

i think baby think it over. and such.

i cant wait until i do it senior year :D

Answer 20

*sigh* here we go again.

dont think about getting knocked up. think about your studies, and stuff like that. here's my reasoning:

you dont have a job. you are not responsible enough to care for another living, breathing, human. i am 15 years old, and i'll be honest with you, there is NO WAY IN h**l that i would even consider getting pregnant.

YOU ARE A CHILD.

stop being stupid. wait until you are physically, emotionally, and financially ready to support a baby. otherwise it's going to end up being your mothers problem.

stop being ignorant. you are still in school. how are you supposed to take care of a baby with all your classes?

thumbs down me. i dont care. i know im right about this.

Answer 21

Get A Puppy.

Having a child takes alot more, they DONT STAY BABIES FOREVER.

Answer 22

it looks fun to u. but trust me.

it's not

Answer 23

You can always adopt me. I'm mentally special & need to be taken care of, since I'm too retarded to do it myself. I'll be 25 in a couple of weeks. U care to be my direct care supervisor?

Answer 24

the best thing you can do is wait! if you have baby now it will cost too much money. youll have to get a job. cuz you need diapers, formula, baby food, clothes, crib, stroller and more!!! the list goes on and on. and you will be looked at by others in a sad way.

you need to finish school. also wait a good 10 years atleast!!  

Answer 25

i have the exact same thoughts all the time

email me if you wanna talk

Answer 26

tell your parents and get them to get your a 'baby' doll (baby think it over doll) like they use in s*x ed classes at some school. You have to take care of it for a week and it does everything like a real baby, cries, feeds, wees, burps and the cute things as well.... there is a computer chip in it so after the week is over you can look at the chip and see all the things you missed and your reaction times to its cries and stuff. THAT will deter you like noting else!!!!!

this is the site for the Baby Think It Over doll have a look

http://www.realityworks.com/home.html

Answer 27

remember being a mom isnt just about taking care of babies its also helping them throughout life. Theres also feeding them and sheltering them. And they wont stay babies forever u know they also have to grow up.