Ok this totally sucks dude?

Question

I went to church this morning like I always do. I live in Cali, I surf every day. Anyway I was telling you all last week there is a chick I like in church and I was going to ask her out. So I asked her if she would go to church with me next week. She looked at me all wierd and then her father said she did not want me to bother her. Then I asked her father if it would be ok if I sat with them next week. He just said no and that was it. I don't even want to go to church next Sunday. Should I switch church? Or is God telling me I don't have to? I have been bored there lately.

Answer 1

Wow dude that like, totally sucks man. I'll say man to do whatever you think is best, dude. Surf's up dude!

Answer 2

Ummm, you do realize how weird you sounded, right?

Perhaps this is why the chick is avoiding you.

Answer 3

Forget the girl and her father and continue on with life as you feel is proper

Answer 4

So, you go to church to hit on girls??

Answer 5

that was ttly messed up what they did btw... i would still go and act like nothing happened its gonna bother the c**p out of them

Answer 6

Don't go to church next Sunday.  Forget the church.  Can't you just meet a nice girl on the beach?

Answer 7

Is there a reason why you included the detail "I surf every day"

Does it have any particular connection with your "girl problem"?

Answer 8

You asked her out to a church she already attends?

Answer 9

Sounds like father and daughter are not looking into your heart, but your outward appearance, you should have seen me when I was a punk rocker in the mormon church with a neon orange mohawk, talk about being out of place in a cult that is mostly concerned about appearances.

Dude Christians will offend you, question is, are you going to be mad at God and keep switching churches everytime a person offends you. Gte a mediator and find out WTFugde is going on, or just say that she lost out and you don;t need someone that is only concerned with appearances.

The first time i got saved I went into a pastor for counseling on an addiction problem, he told me, after an hour thta he could nto help me because I did not feel quilty enough, well, I was there and asking for help, what more did this guy want!!! I looked at my accountability partner and shrugged my shoulders, it was her idea I come to this guy anyways, and if you can;t find help, where can you find help? Well I could have left the churhc and I just got saved on top of it, but I didn;t let this one stop me from walkign with the Lord.

Then again if you are sure you are not getting fed in this church, you could try a few other churches and see if they do feed you better and if they don;t, come back to the one you are already attending,

my point is you just don;t want this girl to think you left because of her, why gove her that kind of power?

Answer 10

It's your choice if you don't want to go to this church again, but don't not go because this girl's father is a s****. jackass.  

Answer 11

A dude, You should go to church and show those two that you go to church to be with God not to see them. Dude, don't ever let a chick and her rude father stop you from going to God's house. And since it's God's house you can sit anywhere you want. Dude, If I were you I would go sit next to this chick or right behind her!!  

Answer 12

Stop trying for an excuse not to go to church. Just because you got rejected, doesn't mean God is giving you a pardon from visiting Him. Yes you still have to go. Yes you can stay right where you are.  

Answer 13

What are your motives? Church is the last place you should flirt. Dude!

Answer 14

Attending there & seeing this girl are 2 separate issues. Honor her Dad's advice & leave her alone.

Start participating more during the worship & you'll find you're not so bored.

Answer 15

sometimes it's hard to please them or even understand them...

but that's ok i'm sure there are many cool chicks for you out there. just keep searching and never give up on your dreams no matter what the people around you tell you.