Ok u can say I'm dumb, but I miss my ex!!!!?

Question

He's done everything unimaginable to me and I'm with a really great guy now , but I miss my ex b/f!!!! I don't know what to do????

Answer 1

Sometimes people for whatever the reason like to be treated bad. Your ex has no respect for you. Living the rest of your life with someone like that whether it be him or someone else is not a life. Do you really wanna short change yourself?  

Answer 2

this is the hard part. if you want to be with him you have to forgive him. is he worth forgiving? if he's that bad you need to muster up the courage to leave him or else you will regret it later. people don't just change.  

Answer 3

you are one of those who likes to be mistreated.  You need to be smacked around, huh?  And your new guy is a good guy.  Sorry for your luck.

Answer 4

you just miss living life on the edge and being adventurous and doing things that are entertaining so basically you miss living life on the edge

Answer 5

Believe it or not, it is normal.  Unlike the comments you've already received, you do not like being mistreated!  You simply remember the good times and the things that were right--and no matter how hard you try, its still almost IMPOSSIBLE not to compare the two.  Even though you know you shouldn't.  The other part is because you are probably still not over the ex and still have feelings, so you haven't/couldn't have true feeling for the new guy...my heart and mind won't let you until you deal with the past relationship!

You need to find some closure from the ex, especially if things ended really bad, or if they are forgivable, then maybe you need to sit down and talk with him and see what happens.

Answer 6

The answer is very simple. Stay with your current boyfriend! Remember why you broke up with him in the first place. If you go back to him, you might break up with him again for the same reason.